This does not lead to you straight to herpes at all.
Herpes lesions do not have pus and ulcerate and scab (not fading in 4 days).
Most series STDs do not cause little bumps but do their nasty work internally. There are many skin issues such as bacteria, including folliculitis, yeast, molluscum and scabies that cause bumps.
I feel your bump may be and infected hair follicle or duct.
Thanks for the help still driving myself a Lil crazy because everything I look up on the internet go str8 to herpes.
Every other std cause red bumps?
If this was a primary herpes infection there is no way known the lesions sound disappear in a day!
Discharge is not directly associated with herpes but more with bacteria or yeast. The burning and tingles are readily caused by these conditions.
I'd also test for other STDs.