It's been a long weekend and I'm unable to get any moral support from my recent sex partner about the subject.
About 2 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a man I was dating. The next day a small area right above my clitoris, on my pubic area was itchy. I rigorously scratched it, and thought nothing of it. After some time I noticed it swelled and got red. I figured I may have infected the small area by scratching it so much. I applied some cream and it eliminated the itch. Now that small area is just tender but no discoloration. I then had my period. Once my period ended, I woke up feeling as if something were in my vagina. As if I had a tampon in. I checked, and nothing. Then it started to itch inside my vagina, but no discharge or odor. I also have flu symptoms but it could just be a cold, since my brother just had a cold and could have easily passed it on. Severe head ache, scratchy throat, slight cough. A day ago I injected some Monistat. It relieved the itch inside my vagina for a while but this morning it's back, and I still feel like I have something inside my vagina. I checked for swelling/bumps but felt nothing. Still there's that small, itchy patch of skin I mentioned earlier. And some tingling around that area. It could just be from hair growing back that I recently shaved a week ago.
Now the reason I'm concerned is that a few months ago, a fling of my sex partner told him she tested positive for HSV-2. This, however, did not mean she could have necessarily gotten it from him as it had been some time since they last had sex.
My sex partner says he hasn't experienced and symptoms (of course), and that he got tested last month for everything except HPV and herpes. All other results came out negative.
So there is a huge possibility I could have gotten it. I've been waiting around all weekend for Monday so I can get tested. It's been emotional and rough, could someone please give me some advice or help me get through the night?
Again, main symptoms (all with alternate explanations):
-Head aches, sore throat
-Very minimal, concentrated external genital itching, some tingling, around a patch of skin above clitoris
-Internal vaginal itching, with very little response to Monistat
Thanks to anyone who can lend some time.