I got a cold sore about two months ago - worst I ever had, with a huge bump and a scab It was around day 18-20 when the scab finally fell off. Now, over a month later, I still have a scar - it's not red anymore, just a discoloration of the skin. Definitely no more bump, open wound, fluid, or scabbing, etc. There hasn't been any of this for several weeks. I want to kiss my wife, and to have oral sex. Should I still be concerned about passing the virus along?
I've searched all over Google, but it seems there is a discrepancy in the term 'scar'. Some people may refer to 'scar' as the initial redness that usually lasts for a few days after the scab falls off, which in this case, would still be somewhat contagious. But what about if the redness is long gone, and the scar has been present for over a month?
I've used vitamin E and anti scarring cream, which may be working, albeit extremely slowly.