Tingling, malaise, sore throat

[Needhelpplz123]

I had protected vaginally sex at a massage parlor. 4 days later I developed a sore throat and malaise.  Then proceeded to develop pinprick, tingling sensations in buttocks, thigh, Hamstring, groin area. I never had an outbreak. No rash, no itching, no pain. Occasionally I would feel a burning sensation in urethra. I tested for chlamydia, gonorrhea, hiv, syphilis on day 7 after exposure and all have been negative.
My questions are: I heard herpes affects the nerves, the tingling sensation I had is that possibly a sign of it?
Can you be mildly symptomatic and not have an outbreak?
I have a girlfriend and am wondering when it is safe for me to have intercourse with her?
I have seen an nurse practioner at an std clinic and he says it is very unlikely herpes.

[auntiejessi]

It would be HIGHLY unlikely for you to get herpes from a one time, protected encounter.

Also, you need to get an outbreak in order for you to get nerve pain. My guess is that at least some of this is anxiety.

[Needhelpplz123]

Thanks. That's what I am assuming. My anxiety has been super high as I am regretful of the experience and scared to pass anything onto my girlfriend. I think I have developed some kind of ultra awareness in my groin area and feel every little thing now and every sensation sends me down the rabbit hole...of do i have this? Do I have that? Thanks for your help.

[auntiejessi]

You're welcome. :)

[Needhelpplz123]

It has been 20 days since exposure.