please Grace and others.. help needed!!

please help!!!!

by hongkonger, Dec 15, 2011
5 months ago I received unprotected oral for 15 secs and got licked on anus for 1 minuteby a random girl. then about 3 minute of protected penetrative.

5 weeks post exposure I started getting small red spots on my arms occasionally..they were small and about 3 of them each time.

3 months PE I tested for HIV syphilis and chlamydia and gornoneaha. all came back negative.


then about 3 months ago from now I had purely protected penetrative with another girl. no kissing whatsoever. it lasted for about 4 mins.

the red spots still come out occassionally. then about 2 weeks ago or so my gf started having  fever, some  mosquito bite like red bumps on her trunk. and seemingly a swollen lymph node in her neck. as for last night, eg, a red bump was near her chest.

last night I also had about 3 red bumps like that. today I started feeling generally unwell .



Please Grace and other great people and helpful minds out there, am I at risk of STD? did I get herpes or hep a b or c, or other STD ?

I feel really guilty. I talked to doctor a few months ago about the tiny red spots and she told me not to worry.

now there are these small red bumps on me and my gf. I am scared. do I need to go test for herpes and other STD ??

please help I m truly grateful and I pledge I will not do sth this bad again ...!

[TiredOfGirlyProblems]

Sounds like scabes. But I'm only guessing. You should get it looked at and ask about scabes

[gracefromHHP]

as vance already pointed out on the std forum, this wasn't a real std risk.  we recommend protected sex because it works!!  the brief unprotected oral you had was not a real risk for std's either.

no reason for more std testing.  

see your provider for your symptoms for a proper work up.

grace