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I am beside myself cause i do not know if i have a strange  nuerosis or I have contracted  HSV II, I slept with my ex..formerly my wife.. she had surgery for a hysterectomy, and had assured me that she   had not  had sex with another individual in the last 2 years, she was along term partner and last time i tested  I was negative, she was having  the surgery because of  pre cancerous cells that was found.. in any case  she was on alot of medications and antibiotics, we slept together near the end of  september and I developed  bumps all over the  head of my penis which then turned into a purplish  swelling that had  whitish  fluid underneath it.. it did not hurt, and  the bump did not craters.. when it looked like it was a scab I removed it and  it closed up. I saw my doctor who is experienced in STD/HIV stated that it did not  look like herpes and  said that it was  balantis more looking like a fungal or yeast, he then  perscribed fungal and yeast medicine. my mother who is a nurse said the same thing and suggested that i combine the medications in order for it to  work that that it would  take up  to six weeks . I then  would have1-3  itchy bumps that  did not have any fluid on my shaft and when i used the  medication it went away.. I did not have a discharge but i felt  burning like sensations on my legs, did not have a fever  but  felt a hotflash on the back on my neck .i would  get little bumps on my butt they would be itchy but not puss filled or would not be close to each other.butt and lower back.  I would scratch until they would scab and it would heal.. I then developed a bump on my scrotum that was itchy and iwoud scratch and then  a red fluid would  come out,, it owuld be one bumb then have  2 or three small ones around it  and then it would  scab and heal in 24 hrs.. then i got a bump on the other side of my scrotum and that one started to have smalled bumps in different sizes and i would put the medication on it but it would calm down  I then  had itching  at night  that was almost unbearable and  then my other friend who was a nurse reasoned that it might be scabies and  gave me  permethrin that worked and being at the fact that  i did not have anymore bumps on my penis and that it seemed to work then I felt better and i was  getting to a better place mentally,  then I went over  to my ex's house and slept on the extra bed and  I began to itch all over again and this time   my hands , arms, chest, stomach and  forearms kind of did the same thing that  my scrotum was doing.. I treated myself again but the bumps have not disappeared and i am still itchy.. I then got a tingle on the head of my penis that comes and goes... and i keep checking to see if anything develops and it has not, then my scrotum still had the  bumps there..and  yester day one of them itched and i scratched it and it opened .. i put  the fungal medication on it  and anti biotic ointment and it  closed up and shrank... and now my nose feels  flu like...but i have no fever and  i am having a hard  time eating or sleeping, and i am worried that my girl might have  contracted from me cause she is  complaining  that her back hurts all the time and that her arms are sore and that  she felt achy.. but she does not have a yeast infection or any signs of an outbreak.. I am having a hard time and my anxiety is at a all time high, i am going to the  free clinic tomorrow.. and even though the bumps i had looked nothing  like HSV , I am still worried and feeling  sick.. I mena what  bumps  stay on your genitals  for  close to 2 months? how can it  put out  redish fluid.. my is my penis  tingling.. am i overly  genitally focused , I am worried,
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it has  been more than 30 days since  me and my girl have had sex i am more  than worried about her headaches and  body aches.. and the pain in her right ankle..
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6939574 tn?1390927849
Hey need2no, are you getting the blood test tomorrow?  How long has it been since exposure?  Herpes wouldn't show up inside her mouth.  Don't worry about that.  Don't worry about your pains either.  Just get the test and lets see.
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i could not  make it to my appointment today.. cause it seemed like everything in the world stopped me, i am not  having  itching   where the  two nodules were  but nothing  popped up and nothing burning.. just itchy.. but it  feels funny when i sit a certain way.. i feel  pressure on the head of my penis  but no  tingling like before.. my nose is semi stuffed but my  girl has  developed  whitish looking things in her mouth by her throat but says that she is not experiencing  nothing  in her nether regions, she said she  feels achey and she had a nose bleed.. I am hoping it i can make it tomorrow.. I also noticed that  i still get a pinch in both hips from time to time.. nothing major  but i feel it... i am watching her and  waiting to see what  happens  when she goes to her  doctor's appointment on thursday... i thought she might have cold sores in her mouth cause it was  white when i checked last night but today it is  her regular color in her mouth and  does not look like it did  yesterday
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i just had a small bump on my right  ring finger  near the tip.. iwas  handing a it did not  make a bump but it was  feeling  sore and swollen very little but nothing   big.. i had  pulled a hang nail but i handled a hot towel and it seems to  bust .. with clear fluid... i almost  lost my mind .. and i am wondering if it is  witlow which i hear can happen if you  have been exposed to HSV i have  have swollen fingers before but  that is during  bacterial related events.. i wash my hands all the time... i am going to go tomorrow to see if i can get it  swabbed as well..
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wow, i guess i am not the only person in the situation.. i feel like i am on a watch.. i am watching  my girl friend so closely and  every pain she  gets  worries me , she was complaining of feeling achy and that set me off into a new episode... I still have  itching but that could be due to the scabies that are  dead or  dying , i felt something  on my but cheek but  my  girl said itwas a small bump no fluid...every little thing  bothers  me, and it is hard on me..and i feel crazy cause  i feel like i have to stay away from everyone and any itch, pinch or feeling  makes my mental state go crazy...I ma doing better than before  but   the fight with myself is crazy
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Follow catinbarefeets advice need2no.  I understand the confusion and worrying.  Sorry if I sounded blunt on the testing, we can only do so much on here and we can't diagnose you until you get the proper testing.  If it makes you feel better I too am waiting for results and I too have been having what I think are symptoms.  By the end of next week I will be at the 12 week mark.  It has been taking forever and I kept counting wrong thinking I was almost there when really I had a bit longer to go. I have been having the random stinging pains in the growing and stinging pains in the buttocks.  I too have been having prickly feelings in these locations as well.  I too have been having burning sensations in the urethra and growing as well.  I also had a little tiny red bump or sore appear on my scrotum about a week or 2 ago and it felt hot and stung.  This all worries me too, trust me, It's the most I have ever stressed in my life. But keep calm the best you can, ignore these possible symptoms and get the testing.  If negative, I assure you these symptoms will subside and most likely go away my friend.  Keep us posted on the outcome, and I wish you the best
~Raddly.
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