I am beside myself cause i do not know if i have a strange nuerosis or I have contracted HSV II, I slept with my ex..formerly my wife.. she had surgery for a hysterectomy, and had assured me that she had not had sex with another individual in the last 2 years, she was along term partner and last time i tested I was negative, she was having the surgery because of pre cancerous cells that was found.. in any case she was on alot of medications and antibiotics, we slept together near the end of september and I developed bumps all over the head of my penis which then turned into a purplish swelling that had whitish fluid underneath it.. it did not hurt, and the bump did not craters.. when it looked like it was a scab I removed it and it closed up. I saw my doctor who is experienced in STD/HIV stated that it did not look like herpes and said that it was balantis more looking like a fungal or yeast, he then perscribed fungal and yeast medicine. my mother who is a nurse said the same thing and suggested that i combine the medications in order for it to work that that it would take up to six weeks . I then would have1-3 itchy bumps that did not have any fluid on my shaft and when i used the medication it went away.. I did not have a discharge but i felt burning like sensations on my legs, did not have a fever but felt a hotflash on the back on my neck .i would get little bumps on my butt they would be itchy but not puss filled or would not be close to each other.butt and lower back. I would scratch until they would scab and it would heal.. I then developed a bump on my scrotum that was itchy and iwoud scratch and then a red fluid would come out,, it owuld be one bumb then have 2 or three small ones around it and then it would scab and heal in 24 hrs.. then i got a bump on the other side of my scrotum and that one started to have smalled bumps in different sizes and i would put the medication on it but it would calm down I then had itching at night that was almost unbearable and then my other friend who was a nurse reasoned that it might be scabies and gave me permethrin that worked and being at the fact that i did not have anymore bumps on my penis and that it seemed to work then I felt better and i was getting to a better place mentally, then I went over to my ex's house and slept on the extra bed and I began to itch all over again and this time my hands , arms, chest, stomach and forearms kind of did the same thing that my scrotum was doing.. I treated myself again but the bumps have not disappeared and i am still itchy.. I then got a tingle on the head of my penis that comes and goes... and i keep checking to see if anything develops and it has not, then my scrotum still had the bumps there..and yester day one of them itched and i scratched it and it opened .. i put the fungal medication on it and anti biotic ointment and it closed up and shrank... and now my nose feels flu like...but i have no fever and i am having a hard time eating or sleeping, and i am worried that my girl might have contracted from me cause she is complaining that her back hurts all the time and that her arms are sore and that she felt achy.. but she does not have a yeast infection or any signs of an outbreak.. I am having a hard time and my anxiety is at a all time high, i am going to the free clinic tomorrow.. and even though the bumps i had looked nothing like HSV , I am still worried and feeling sick.. I mena what bumps stay on your genitals for close to 2 months? how can it put out redish fluid.. my is my penis tingling.. am i overly genitally focused , I am worried,