Is it ok to have sex at 30 weeks

Hi all well saturday was the first time I have had sex throughout my entire pregnancy and I am now 30 weeks along I did feel like I tore something and I bleed just a little bit only when I wiped and then it was gone....So I didnt know if I should have sex again or what?  Any help would be great thanks

[nermineagain]

since you did not had sex from 30 nweeks it is very normal to bleed a little bit, because the space is so tight now, sex is safe unless you bleed more, they told pregnant women to have more sex in the last two three weeks of pregnancy.

[tiredbuthappy]

i'm now 34 weeks (yay) and just started having sex again a few weeks ago (around 30 weeks). up until then, i had absolutely no interest. now, there's plenty of interest for some reason :) just take it easy and slow, and do what's comfortable. try different positions. make sure you're stimulated enough so there's enough lubrication. and enjoy!!

[Nicole092907]

Thank you so much that helps a lot ...I just wasnt sure since I spotted if it was ok....but now that I know GREAT..lol....

[TripleAPage]

What positions are you ladies finding to be the most comfortable?  I'm almost 31 weeks and I like missionary, but it's getting kind of uncomfortable and I don't really love doggy style! LOL  Spooning is alright and we haven't tried me on top in a while!  I just can't wait to be able to do it like we used to!

[Nicole092907]

I have a 19 month old daughter I dont have baby free time LOL... she keeps me to busy sometimes I hate to say but I love 9 o'clock when its her bed time so I can lay and relax and now having her dad there has helped me out some...

[nikkicole827]

Yes, it's ok.  In fact, its recommended as long as you arent in severe pain or bleeding.  Spotting is totally normal... just tissue tear I think and ntohing to worry about.  I spot sometimes when DH and I have sex.  We have done it about once a month in this pregnancy and I've found that it can feel rather good in some positions and awful in others so you just need to find what works for you.  Good luck and enjoy the remainder your baby-free time!  

[anxiousmomtobe?]

Doggie style seems the best, less penetration.  On top is uncomfortable right now.  (33 weeks).