shoud i go for a second child

hi friends,
i m a 29 yr old house wife, my son is 4 yrs old now, i dont know, shud we have a second child or not.actually my previous exp. was not very good, i had  a c-section delivery and i dont want to go in those pregnancy n delivery problems once again.and the other reason is financial....here money is not a problem but some how i feel that after having second kid the expenditure will become much higher.
but some of friends adviced me to have atleast two kids for the sake of my son, otherwise he will feel lonely for his entire childhood.i m very confused, what shud i do?
plz advice.............

[boosty]

let me tell you somethign honey, i would not have any kids simply because others think you should. theyre not the ones who will live that life and take care of those kids. you will be responsible and its a decision that you have to make with your husband. if youre not ready, dont do it. dont worry about the age of your child or anyone else.  i know plenty of kids who dont have siblings and they are wonderful, happy grown ups now. if you and your partner really want kids and youre ready financially and emotionally, then dont hesitate because you dont like the pregnancy feeling. noone does. its a hard nine months. i am now 31 weeks and i wanna hang myself. lol. but think about it, dont be rushed and dont do anythign for anyone else. good luck

[stan24]

thanks a lot.......i will keep ur points in mind.

[Tanker Chic]

A friend (only child) of mine reminded me one time that the relationship I have with my sister is the longest relationship I will have in my life.  It really things in perspetive for me. I think siblings are very important, but as boosty pointed out it needs to be something that you want to do.  

best of luck to you.