Was my masturbating technique wrong?

[boy_of_misery]

1. Do u hold the PC muscle, the one u use to stop urine flow and to hold erection/ejaculation? Or do u just hold it when u r about to ejaculate?

2. Are there any bad effects holding it for the whole masturbation session? My penis wont erect as big as it could if i do this, maybe cuz the blood flow is held. And i had been doing this for years (from 14 to 19 y/o) with these only 70% quality erections, would it cause my penis to shrink/stunt penis growth? Do our penises grow during our teen years cuz of the hard 100% erections?

So my fapping technique was:

(1)flaccid
(2)hold PC muscle tightly-stroke with hand
(3)after seconds, release it
(4)then, it goes a little erect
(5)after that, hold the PC muscle again
(6)release the muscle and it goes a little bit more erect
(7)so on..so on..from (2) to (6) until i ejaculate

The thing was, i forced it to ejaculate it in 1 minutes
only everyday without achieving full erections and ive been doing it for 5 years, from 14 to 15 y/o. I dunno, when i did that 'hold and release', i cummed fast.

Recently, i noticed my technique was wrong. So, i start jerking off without holding it and the sensation was great. I also last very longggg. Now, i know why jerking off has been boring these years.

But, did i stunt my penis growth by not achieving full erections all the time?

Also, the penis has shrunk, i measured. It even should have grown these years, rather than shrinking. It is now thinner, not that my palm becomes bigger, really.

[Dklinger]

Having seen some of your other posts, I think a lot of your issues are just anxiety and I think you're just looking into it far too much. My penis isn't "large" when flaccid but when hard I'm 7.5 and quite thick, so definitely don't look too much into the flaccid size. If you believe there is a medical issue then perhaps you should see a doctor and/or urologist. I personally believe it's just anxiety though. Don't worry too much! Just be happy with what you've got. It's how you use it, not the size!

[boy_of_misery]

I know there's nothing wrong with the technique, everyone would have their own right technique, as long as it doesn't cause pain.

My point is, I've been jacking off these years without letting my penis to be fully erected. I always forced it to *** before it went 100%. I forced it to *** fastly in 1-2 minutes, only in order to get the 'release' sensation. I always did this everyday in the morning before school to 'wake me up', cuz of my sleepiness due to my lack of sleep.

I've measured when I was 14, before I developed this habit, , it reached 6 inch mark already. It's thicker, stronger, and more muscular. I could compete with adults already.

It should've been hitting the 6.5/7 inch already, like everyone else in my family.

Now, it's just 5 inch. The thickness is also shameful for a 19 y/o. The flaccid is also a child's size.

Would it shrink penis/stunt penis growth during my growing years (14 to 19 y/o)? Or, do I just lack in blood flow? Also do my lack of sleep have something to do with it?

[Dklinger]

Okay, forget bobdylan for a minute. I can't make any sense of what he's saying and I'm sure that you can't make a word out of it either, so let us just ignore him for a moment.

There is no right or wrong to masturbation. It is simply do what you enjoy (with limitations, of course, don't go off hurting yourself!) With that said, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Also, keep in mind that you can't measure your penis size while flaccid, naturally that number will change completely. Instead, using your newest technique, allow yourself to reach full erection and then measure. Just do what you enjoy!  Best of luck to you.

[bobdylan1958]

      Please explain how you have been masturbateing wrong as you say for all these years ???

[bobdylan1958]

       Hi can you please explain what is jeez????? if you are not in a relationship how has it messed up your sex life (intercourse)????

[boy_of_misery]

yes, its possible. Try to hold ur PC muscle when msturbating, the one u use to stop urine flow.

U ask me back jeez im the one who needs infrmation here.. Im afraid it has messed my sex life.

I live in indonesia, im 19. Ive never had sex, only got oral sex from gf.