Hi Samantha, sorry our posts went to the next page so I didn't see your reply until today.
I'm really sorry you're going through it at the moment. But I wouldn't read too much into the fact that you are going to have to wait for the results. When I had my first MRI done and they thought it was a prolapsed disc, when it wasn't, I was sent on my way and waited for a few weeks to see the neuroloigst. I thought because I was told they didn't find what they were looking for, that nothing was wrong. I actually remember talking to the dr saying, well there must be something, I'm not mad you know, my leg hasn't gone numb for no reason. She never said anything, just smiled. However, when I went to the neurologist he went through the mri and showed me there were lesions on my spine. I was really quite shocked, actually quiet relieved as I then knew I wasn't mad but confused as to why the other dr had said nothing. I guess I needed to wait though as the neurologist was the best person to look at the mri thoroughly.
Thanks for your thoughts about my 'mum' situation. I'm sorry to here about your mum and dad. I feel really guilty now for moaning, I should be grateful, which I am for their support and concern but like you said about your parnets in law, it's nice to be pampared sometimes, but other times it's just good to feel and be treated as normal. I did try to call my mum and I've texted her but she's ignoring me at the moment. I do feel awful as they have just moved up to be near me about 6 weeks ago. The move really was because my dad has parkinsons and they wanted to be closer to family but the tables have been turned really at the moment. I've talked to my big brother about it and he says I just need to give her time. I know he is right but she will sulk forever unless I make the first move, but that's almost like admitting I was wrong and I know I'm not...I know my own mind and know what I need right now. I just wish they would respect that, that's all. Moan, moan, moan....that's all I ever do...he he!!
I really hope you're feeling a bit brighter today. I can only imagine how tired you must get with your children but I also hope they can take your mind of things for a bit until you get your results. If they are anything like me and my 6 brothers and sisters were like...you won't be getting any peace. We were always fighting, I still have the scares to prove it and my sister still has 3 very odd shaped broken fingers....wonder how she got them...he he. In my defence I was the youngest so I had to stand my ground...she's forgiven me now.
It's really good to talk to you and also really good to compare notes on the great British NHS. Do stay in touch and I'm here anytime if you want to scream, talk, let off steam or have a laugh.
Take care
Em