Rena's post about 'dealing with the outside world,' was a fantastic discussion and I believe something we can all identify with. Peoples misunderstanding of what it's like for a person with disabilities. How we can sometimes be shunned by the people we thought were friends. How we can be stared at, when we are out in public, if we happen to walk with the aid of a cane or a walker.
When I was diagnosed with MS so many years ago, I suddenly looked around and found that there were many "friends," missing from my life, that HAD been there before my diagnosis. It hurt and it hurt me deeply. I realized that is was THEIR ignorance and misunderstanding of this disease, that drove them out of my life. Many would say that I am better off without "friends" like that.
Rena has taught us alot about how to deal with such "friends." Her discussion and comments were invaluable. Rena dear, you handled it all like a tropper....as always! I know it hurt you, but hopefully you felt the love of REAL friends, such as you have on this forum.
Rena's post brought out healthly discussion. It also showed what I have said all along...this group is the finest on the Internet and deeply devoted. I am proud to say that I am a member of the MedHelp MS Forum. I know that many of you are, also...
Thank you Rena. Stay strong girl. You've come through this like the champ that you are....
BIG (((HUGS))))
Heather