Thanks everyone!!!...your answers put my mind to rest and its good to know there are other people in the same condition as me... great moral support....
It is normal to feel the numbness and pain. Your body just went through a major event and it just takes time to heal. You are feeling the numbness because when they opened you up, they had to cut through nerves. It will take a bit for those nerves to heal. Make sure you are taking it easy and not lifting more than a gallon of milk. If you walk a bit each day, that may help with the bloating too. Hope you are feeling better soon!!
I am almost 6 weeks weeks after. I had my surgery the day before you and I m STILL off work. I get shooting pains on my left side and it is very annoying. I was dumb and didn't take it easy so that' s probably it. I think that it just takes time!!
It can take more than 6 weeks for the tenderness to diminish. It might have been 8 to 10 weeks for me. I returned to a desk job at 6 weeks and found it very difficult.