Yes, you are definitely in the right place if you want people who understand how this frustration feels. I am still trying to get to the bottom of what is going on with me, and I can honestly say that this whole process has really been the worst thing I have had to deal with.
Like your fiance, my poor boyfriend has to deal with all the emotional distress that comes along with these type of issues. It's not only hard on me, but hard on him and hard on our relationship. I am very lucky that he is so patient, understanding, and loving. I don't know how I'd do it without him.
I feel your pain, was just diagnosed with a cyst myself but have been dealing with the pain for yrs and didn't know what was wrong.
Hi! I just had a 6 cm right fibroid and right ovary removed on 8/23/11, laprascopic. Also did a D & C. It was outpatient surgery. We watched it for a few years and this past year it grew enough where he felt it would be good to remove it. It was wreaking havoc on my periods, intimacy and cramping through out the month. I am 2 days post op and feeling pretty good. I was too very nervous about the surgery but knew I had to get it over with. They made 3 small incisions in my belly. My belly is tender. It's somewhat painful getting up and I try not to bend over. Once I am up walking around I feel very little discomfort. I take 3 ibuprofens every 6 hours and it's doing the trick. I have read on here about trouble with Gas Pain but I haven't had that issue. When I went into surgery he didn't know what exactly he would find and if he would be able to do it laparoscopically. I don't think they really know until they get in and take a look inside. I was sad to lose right ovary but the fibroid was in a spot where he couldn't save it. He said the left ovary will take over. I hope this helped you all in some way.
I feel your pain and frustration. I go thurs, 25th to find out if I have to have or not to remove a 6.22cm cyst.