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10488997 tn?1412309585

anyone not finding out baby sex?

second baby and I habe said no I want a surprise.  I am studying radiography tho, also sonography so i think at my 20  week scan I will notice.  has anyone not found out and how hard is it? also is there enought neutral baby stuff out there so got at least some stuff in.
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Oooh this is post is making me unsure now!With my daughter we didn't found out and when she was born it was the best feeling telling everyone..but everything was beige n i hate anything beige/neutral now..absolutely everything she has is pink now n i ended up buying duplicates of things..wondering wether to just not buy a buggy until after the birth..ohh decisions!!
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10249138 tn?1417206465
No im not finding out. I have one boy, 2 girls. Either way I already have one of the genders...lolz
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10488997 tn?1412309585
i have a four year old daughter and just gave her a princesses room so she felt spoilt before baby comes in april.dont want her to feel left out so next year il b redecorating the room if its a boy lol. use have made me determined to not find out. this is definetly my last baby. I still have two years of university to go so if I was ever going to have another it wont be for at least five years. this pregnancy is flying by! cant wait to hold it in my arms.
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We're not!! 20 weeks and sooo excited to find out the gender... At birth <3

Decorating the nursery wall with mountains in different shades of teal and adding fun patterns to the fabrics in the room. Will add purple if it's a girl!!! Eeek! So fun :0)

It's great keeping it neutral because you can use the big expensive items again for your next baby :0)
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10488997 tn?1412309585
yeah im already goong crazy lol. pramwise I dnt know what colour to get. might just get black and can buy accessories when baby is here x
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We didn't find out with our first and was such an amazing surprise that we aren't finding out with this one either. It was just really special. And we just bought everything we'd need for the first couple of month in gender neutral for our first, so we hardly need to buy anything for this one. It is driving my family crazy tho! They really want to know and have said they are going to hold off buying anything until after its born so they can buy pink or blue.
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10488997 tn?1412309585
yeah im the same I need to know everything but I think that moment they r born and they its a.... will be amazing. im scared to buy anything for some reason like if I do something might go wrong. I tjink its another girl and my fiance thinks its a boy as does my whole family but I think thats wishful thinking.  I would love a boy so one of each buy genuinely will b happy with a baby that is healthy. xx
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7763771 tn?1510501652
And yes there is alot of neutral colors once you start shopping. But I would say don't buy alot, because you and everyone else will probably go out afterwards and buy either pink or blue. Hapoebed to me, now my precious has a wardrobe bigger than mine
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8101930 tn?1420001456
We aren't finding out the gender either.. It was a little bit hard for me but I didn't cave in. My sister didn't find out  what her twins were so she had tons of neutral colored baby clothes Which really helped.  It's hard finding them I have found.  Once we have baby and know what gender it is then we are gonna buy girl or boy outfits.  :)
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7763771 tn?1510501652
Best**
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7763771 tn?1510501652
I didn't find out!  had my little baby girl two weeks ago and I am completely over the moon. I am the type of person who always has to know everything and have everything 100% organized so I thought it was going to be alot harder than it was. Best decision of my life.  And through the whole pregnancy I thought I was having a boy.  I would just ask politely for them to avoid that area (I did that at all of my ultrasounds as I had many) & they did. Beat of luck
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