young girls having sex

[2wonderfulboys]

Ok, I just checked out the 20 and under pregnancy forum and I am so very upset!  Why are these girls getting pregnant so young?  Don't their parents even talk to them?  I don't understand a 13 year old having sex and then asking if she could be pregnant?!  A 17 year old with twins!  They don't use protection, don't they realize they could get an STD or AIDS?  Where are the parents?   Wake up America and talk to our children, boys and girls, they really need the help and also some help on spelling also :)

[pertykitty]

giving sex tips to a minor IS morally wrong!

i agree that some parents are idiots and will not take action when their kids are at fault.  we had some 10yr and 13ish yr olds break into a school in the area where i live.  they did hundreds of thous. of dollars in damage.  spray painted, broke all the computers, it was repulsive that these kids were able to get out of their house at night and do this!! the mom (whos words had to be translated) said if she knew they were going to do this she wouldnt have let them go.  wtf?? they were as young as 10, what did they need to be doing out at night???  the parents also hid the computer he stole in an orchard, good parenting skills there!

if any of you want to show immaturity by making fun, go ahead, shows how your skills just might be lol

[40smama]

I just thought of something that irks me is that a parent that does not take responsibility when his/her child messes up.  For example, say your child goes into someone's home and brings alchohol (I can't spell tonight) & is underaged - let's say 14.  He's caught & you're called.  You acknowledged it's alchohol..  When it comes out later that this happened, you deny it and call the parents who caught him a liar.  You child has no consequences ot speak of & gets off virtually scott-free.  He makes no apology to the offending parents nor has any punishment.

This actually happened (as you can guess).  I was the offending parent who caught two children & the parents didn't do a darned thing.  THAT'S what irks the heck out of me!!!

I can think of a million more examples of parents who don't have their children make any sort of restitution & certainly you can read about them in the newpapers or hear about it on TV.  Children mess up - it's what happens afterwards is what's important in my opinion.

We have a community leader (pcarsey) - I don't think we have a moderator per say although the forum is moderated by medhelp.

[leighanne143]

i thought that is why each forum has a moderator to check in and see if anything is not going well.

what is morally wrong to one might not be to others, so we can not be making personal judgement calls.

38yroldprego- totally agree with you, BARNEY all the way, the song that does not end.

[pertykitty]

i am going to show you all what i mean.  i will go over and lend my wisdom and see if i can turn a bad situation into a good one. never happened before but im willing to either have a positive reaction or prove myself to be right. lol.   it just needs someone to monitor what is being posted, to drop the posts regarding questions that are morally wrong for others to do. here i go!  when addy goes back to bed late.r

[melimeli]

melissa we are obligated by law to report and I do... it is just seen over and over again..

[leighanne143]

thank you 40smama for popping in there and seeing it is not as bad as people think.

i also think that the girls in that forum do not always look at the age of the person that is responding, so i encourage you all to still pop in and give your wisdom.