another pregnant woman at my baby shower

[BabyGABsMom]

So my baby shower is this coming weekend and my husband has invited this woman he went to high school with who is 8 months pregnant and due a couple of weeks beforquestion claiming that he invited everyone he knew so we can get more gifts. This woman is married but at one point before my husband and I were together asked her husband to allow her to have sex with my husband who was single at the time. My husband said he would never do it because he was also friends with her husband. Her and I have had several run ins where Im at a point now where I will be a complete B*tch if she rubs me  the wrong way. My question is what pregnant woman in her third trimester would go to another woman's baby shower? She already accepted the invite but I don't want her to come.

[AmandaPanda85]

I feel your husband should put himself in your shoes and think about it. How comfortable would he be a guy over the years has been trying to have sex with you is there. I mean out of respect that friendship should have ended because of her innapropriate behavior. You've had run ins for a reason. Doesn't matter if her husband okays her sleeping with others. That ls there personal business. 18 years of friendship or not she doesn't need to be there.

[deltagreen9913]

I think you have a problem with the woman and not the fact she's pregnant.

[Rippy_Baby]

Yea... that's a negative. You don't need to be looking over your shoulder at her and ease dropping on her conversations. I'm assuming that since HE invited her and other people he knows... that hes going to be there too... don't need raging hormones that may end up making you look like "the bad guy" to people that don't know the situation/past. That's YOUR celebration day.

[mrskia3]

Tell that ***** she can't come it's your day....its your way or no way.... She only coming to be nosey

[Eevee_moon]

Well she was invited.. I can't believe he invited her..

[pourmycoffee]

Oh hell no! The fact that she is pregnant means nothing. What she did means everything. I would of flipped out at my SO for inviting her in the first place(why is he still talking to her if he knows her intentions?) Then have him or myself call her and tell her I'm sorry but due to past events I can't with good conscience invite you into my home.
Maybe I'm just a little dramatic but no you have every say at who is and isn't allowed at Your party