Your Pregnant Again !!

[mommiesbabi]

I have a 18 month old son and I'm now pregnant with my second child (7 months & 3 weeks) and I hate to the fullest when someone say "Dang You Pregnant Again" That Really Erks Me . Am I taking it the wrong way or would it bother you too ?

[xmammax]

Omg same my daughter is 2 n im showin now at 19 wks n went iv been asked about the bump the response I get is "what again..."

[MommyOfThree911013]

I had that same issue my daughter 3 year old when my son was born and then when my son was 3 months I found out I was pregnant with my daughter who is due in December so her and my son will be almost exactly 1 year apart but the way I look at it is my daughter was so use to being the only one for 3 year so she was kind of spoiled but with my son and the new baby they will be closer together in age so I think it will be a easier adjustment for him then to wait till he is older to have another one

[AmandiePants]

I would never do that to myself. Some of you even got pregnant before your 6 week post partum. No one said you guys were stupid or anything, but you're about to live a hectic life. There are people like me who would not choose a life like that. My son will be 6 when his sister is born. I didn't mean to wait 'this' long, but it's good because he basically takes care of himself. He fully understands that he's going to be a big brother and wants to help all the time when she gets here. Just because some of us waited doesn't mean we are jealous of people who pop em out one right after another. We would just like to understand why you want them so close. We don't mean to be rude.

[msmjoi]

I also heard the same thing I'm sure in Dec and I have a 17 month old so what and my other three children are all close in age as well bit i don't care what people say or think

[LoveJudith11]

People can be so rude!! I would say "If your not taking care of my kids, you should really mind your business"..... people will always have their opinions with anything you do, so ignore them! You can breathe the wrong way and they will have an opinion about that too smh. Live your life mommies!!

[MommaOf3Under3]

Exactly it does tick you off that's like when I announced this one I was kinda a b**ch I just said "if you have something negative to say shove it up your *** cuz we (me and my husband)  do everything for our children thank you very much" no one like that I'm sure I'm also not afraid to take my kids and leave when it comes to the holidays this year

[babyjake2014]

No I'm the same.  I have a 6 month old and im 5 and a half months pregnant again  I feel like telling them to do one aha xx

[Sienna14]

I got it three times in a row.. Got pregnant with my third when my second was 9 months old... Now I am due in a month with no.4 and no.3 just turned 2... I get all kinds of dumb comments like "does ur TV not work?".. _"can't u sleep at night".. At first I laughed it off now its straight peeing me off

[FloridaMommyof2]

My daughter is 3 and I'm due in March. People question me because I was 16 when I gave birth to her and I'll turn 20, 2 months after this baby is born. But I don't care what they say. At the end of the day you are their mother and that's all that matters. I'm personally excited. I never had my teenage years because I got pregnant at 15. But I love being a mom. My fiancé wants 10 kids lol. Don't let them get to you. Good luck :)

[elleseaaaa]

At the end of the day your there for your children not to impress anyone else . I wouldn't let it brother you .

[Love041712]

My mom told me not to have another child soon after i have my daughter because she wants me to give her all the attention ab baby needs n not to just push her out the way so fast. And i dont plan of having another kid so close because im a young mother and i want to be financially stable. But if u provide for kids you have ur own place car job ect. Eff what ppl say. But i have also heard it can lead to health problems having babies so close to each other.

[kayleebug13]

That's why I was scared to announce this pregnancy. . My daughter will be one on the 28th and I am expecting baby #2 in May. I got a couple of WOWS and OMGS. I always had this feeling that even know they are saying congrats they are thinking are you nuts? Which I know a lot of my family thinks. But ya know it's your life and the have no business to judge! I am creating a new life and a sibling for my daughter and I feel blessed

[aaharmony]

Why in the world would you not be able to enjoy your babies while they're young? That's a stupid thing to say. Lol. People are so lame.

[MommaOf3Under3]

I don't really think it's always offensive until they start with the whole well you cant enjoy them now they have to grow up fast and that's not the case at all I enjoy my babies I don't force them to do anything until they do it on there own all babies r different

[aaharmony]

I don't think people mean offense when they say that. When my friend got pregnant 3 months after her son was born it was an accident, but I didn't judge or anything. Things happen, but I think people just put themselves in you situation for that second and wonder if they could've done what you're about to do.
Yeah people can be totally rude, but their opinions don't matter, especially if they're strangers.
Just enjoy your little babies and forget what people say about it. It is none of their business.

[MommaOf3Under3]

Yeah it's annoying but I just ignore it when this baby is born I'll have a two and a half year old a one and a half year old and a newborn

[JulieKuhnert]

I got my throat jumped down one day when I asked about a lady having two babies so close together.  I was more asking because I've heard that having babies so close together can cause health issues for the mother. I think some just read too much into things.

[ygg2014]

Well I'm a FTM and I don't want to wait to long for my next one, probably one year.  But people can be really rude when they want to.  They should mind in their own business.

[nelson9babies]

It used to bother me. My daughter is 3, my son is 9 months, and I'll be 18 weeks tomorrow. Just let it go in one ear and out the other. They're probably jealous they can't have them as close

[mummainoz]

omg I get this too! My son will be 18mths when this one is born and I've had a lot of people, even nurses at the hospital, say to me 'wow, did you mean to have them so close?'. Well actually yes we did! People can be sooo rude.