9DPO!!!!!!!!! and some advice needed plz!

[bimbicat7]

Hi girls! how are you all today?
well as you might know im now 9DPO, anyway ive been having cramps and twinges that i normally dont get since 4DPO! also increased CM also im normally dry the week b4 AF and i just feel uneasy different!?
Itwas my first month after iud removal last month and i got a BFN so im not wanting to get to excited this month! anyway i did a normal test this morning i couldnt handle the wwait anymore :( it said tests as soon as day one of missed period i guess way to early right? another week b4 AF is due here! I got a bfn and im devo now i just hate this! so i went out and got diff tests that say can measure 25 IU/ L    FROM 7-10 DAYS AFTER CONCEPTION! do i test again now or what? maybe i should just wait?
I hate this, I seem to have all the symptoms and last night my back was hurting like af cramps, headaches, tired and white lotion like CM  feel anyone get this ?
can you tell me what you think or what signs you had at 9DPO?  What is Cervix position at this stage if im preg?  and whats it like b4 AF? anyone get a BFP at 9DPO this is doing my head in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  thanks girls, keep praying this is my month! xx

[Mumita]

I suggest that you only test when AF is late, it'll save you lots of unnecessary wondering and money. If you are pregnant you will now eventually.
What always happens to me is that if I test early, I'll get AF for sure a few days later.  If I test early is because i'm having "weird" symptoms that are usually made up in my head.  So I made up my mind to not worry about it until I'm late for sure.  

[maryddn]

I tested and got my BFP. I'm so hoping and praying for you ladies. We'll probably due the same time. Please keep me posted.

[kjbutcher]

test in the AM.  I got 3 + tests in the AM and all three days I got - tests in the PM.  Good Luck.

[dbmisty]

I been having same cramps since 6 dpo but now there there only here and there they were lasting all day. I want to test to but I going wait see if my AF shows up if she does not by monday I test I be 17dpo by then I think

[bimbicat7]

thanks for all your advice girls af is due sunday here so will see how i go although im not holding out much hope i have bad hunger!!! LOL eating heaps and sorre lower back, still alot of cm tho that only diff and im normally really dry a week b4 af

[liscamdave]

I too was so frustrated within the 2ww. Its the worst. I tried to conceive for almost one year after my last miscarriage. I didn't think I would be able to get preggo again. Anyway..I would constantly test too early and constantly mix up AF symptoms and preggo symptoms. When you are trying and want it so bad, you will make yourself feel things that really aren;t happening. At least I did that. But this month, I did the same thing. I thought I was feeling things that could be early pregnancy, but then I figured it was period symtpoms. I did have some of my usual period symptoms,like sore boobs a week before AF> I always get that and it stops a week prior. So nothing was unusual and I figured I had failed again. But the one thing I didn't do this time, was test myself a million times too early. I told myself I would wait until the day of my expected period. And I did. And sure enough, it was a BFP. I was so happy and thrilled. my point is it can happen for you. ANd it IS still too early. I know those tests say they can detect early pregnancy, but its still not 100%. So just try to wait it out. I know its hard and i know it *****. But if you keep testing too early, you will keep getting BFN and keep being sad. At least wait 5 days before AF...

Good luck...

Lisa

[maryddn]

I found taking temps saves me $ on the tests. Usually my temp drops on the day I expect AF, so I know for sure I don't need to test. AF is due this Friday. I've been having some unusual signs, so I have some hopes for this month, but if my temp drops that day, we'll try again next month. Good luck ladies!!!! We seem to have good signs this month. Wouldn't it be nice if we all come back to report that we got our BFPs this month?

[misslollipop]

well good luck i'm having similar symptoms as you but af is due tomorrow so i'm waiting until i'm late till it test *** sticky Baby dust***

[Latrice414]

Bimbicat: one thing about ttc is the waiting period, also, the 2ww i beleve makes most women delusional and hallucinate because we so bad want those symptoms we feel to b preggo symptoms so are mind starts playing tricks on us. I always kept track of my cycle but never kept track of the pains or other things that go on. After my m/c, i realized that i get sore boobs, cramps, and twinges, and pelvic pain 5 days after ovulation, i never paid much attention to it until one day i thought is was signs of a BFP.

I suggest you keep track of your pains etc. for BFP symptoms and also mimic AF signs and symptoms.

I spent a lot of money on hpt 2 months ago buying FRER and i am ashamed to say what i spent.  So now, im just going with the flow, if AF is two days late i will buy a test.

You can test with a FRER @ 8dpo for it detects levels as low as 12.5

Im sorry u r so frustrated but its not going to make your situation any better. Just wait until AF is late then test, bucz you will find your self buying a lot of hpt.

Good luck, hope its a BFP, Im 7dpo an have cramps , twinges, sore boobs etc. but im just gona hang in there and hope for a BFP and if not i will try next month. Not to hopeful this month for i only bd'd on ovulation day

[bimbicat7]

Tested again with a test that says from 7-10 days after conception got a BFN :( think im giving uo hope now :( my cervix is not high not low, firmly closed, and fairly hard.

[elisha123]

im having the same syptoms 2!!! i aswell went out and bought a first response and tested yesterday .. i know it was way to early but i couldnt help my myself. its was only 8dpo lol  AF for me is due in a week and my cervix is not low but not really high , closed , and soft so im hopeing thats good!!! hopefuly you get a BFP !!
  o and my test at 8dpo was a bfn :( so hopefuly it was just to early


SSBDxx