Am I wrong to feel hurt , anger and lied to?

Question

Is it wrong for me to freak that my bf of 6yrs lies hides and sneaks around to porn out? And is it normal to lie about having to fix something to get into basement so he can porn out when I've asked for his help to cook dinner?

Nighthawk61 · Answer

I thought you were being ironic... and it kind of made sense,,

Nighthawk61 · Answer

6 years of porn is more than a stage he's going through...
he is unable to empathize with your point of view...
he sounds like he may be addicted to porn...
his addiction is compromising your marriage, and those are the consequences that are requiting things to change...
this is bigger than you and you cannot "fix" this... 
you need to research the help that's available.for porn addiction...
there's a resource centre for spouses of sex addicts, porn addicts, etc.
@ http://posarc.com/
it might help you to consider everything you must to move forward 
onward and upward soldier...

Londres70 · Answer

Oh dear...........................typos

I made a mistake.  I meant..............

""Is it wrong for me to freak that my bf of 6yrs lies hides and sneaks around to porn out?"............No

"And is it normal to lie about having to fix something to get into basement so he can porn out when I've asked for his help to cook dinner?".........Yes

specialmom · Answer

Hi there.  I think your feelings are valid for sure.  It sounds like quite an issue.  What does he say about it when you discuss this?

TTinKKerBBell · Answer

What's 'wrong' is to go 'round and 'round about this for 6 YEARS.

If You want change You need to realize it's on You to change 'cuz apparently He won't.  After 6 YEARS of no change it seems You need to make a choice:

either accept what it is OR move on. 

(I doubt it's worth another 6 YEARS of arguing over)

Londres70 · Answer

"Is it wrong for me to freak that my bf of 6yrs lies hides and sneaks around to porn out?"............Yes

"And is it normal to lie about having to fix something to get into basement so he can porn out when I've asked for his help to cook dinner?".........No.

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