Confession

[Kayannaboo]

I am asking this question for a friend who doesn't have Medhelp. She relayed the question to me and I was unable to give her a sufficient answer so I thought I would get your views on this:

"I have been friends with Tia* for years, she is my best friend. We are inseparable and so everything together, it has been that way since we were teenagers in high school. Three years ago she got engaged to Jonah*, they appear to be happy in love and they are getting married in a few months. She is head over heels in love and he treats her like a princess, I can honestly say he appears to be the type of guy you want your best friend in the world to marry. Over the years of them dating, Jonah and I got pretty close and he became a friend of mine as well. The friendship between me and him is great, we talk on the phone, I double date with them and all is well. The other night, I was invited to dinner at their house, however, Tia called stating that she would be late. Jonah and I had as usual had a good conversation. Then, he started to tell me that he has been cheating on her the entire time they were together, even with mutual friends and some very close friends while she's at work. Jonah is cool to chat with and so I am not the only one of Tia's friends that he's close with. So he tells me that even our good friends (bridesmaids may I add) Megan* and Kelly* has slept with him...at the same time -____-. He says random people too, he has slept with. I could taste the anger, i got up and slapped him so hard! This A-hole had the galls to say he thought we were friends and that I shouldn't tell Tia. F**** that! That was what I said, I didn't sleep a wink that night I just cried! Poor T! She was gonna die! She bought her dress, the venue and time is set, the caterers have been paid, basically everything is done, she has a whole fairytale wedding planned out, which her parents are paying for.

I confronted Megan the next day....violently :D she didn't even see what hit until it did. There was hair pulling, scratching, hitting everything. My rage worked with me, I whooped that b**** so good! I've been looking for Kelly but I guess she was warned, no worries, I'll find her all this hunting is just making me even more pissed. They have both withdrawn from the wedding making lame excuses about being unable to get the day off from work. After avoiding Tia for a week, I went over when I was sure that ***** was at work. She was in the bathroom, after identifying myself, I went in. There she stood with a damn f****** pregnancy test! Clear a** positive! I drover her to the doctor and go figure she's 6 weeks pregnant! What now?????????????"

[RockRose]

I was hoping to get all the way to the end of the post without Tia being pregnant.  : (

(Bunnliebaybii,  she's not the one who assault that other woman.  She's passing on a story her friend told her).

[bunniiebaybii]

I could tell you I would've done the same. But I'm going to tell you this will not be pretty when other people read it. Mh will delete it because you admitted to committing assualt so be aware. But, dont let your friend be treated this way. Of course it will hurt but she needs to know. She will have to deal with it her own way. But she has to know. All you can do is be there for her.