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Can you spot a experienced cheater?

Any tips or signs to look for? i know some people never get caught cheating because they are damn cunning. So tell me anything that i should always look for when i am in a relationship. Thank You.
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It's hard to know for sure. Every relationship is a gamble because you have to put your trust in the person that they will not cheat, regardless of whoever comes along and tries to tempt them. Some cheaters are so good at hiding it but in other cases the problem is that the other person was cheated on in the past so they project the fear of being cheated on to the new person when they're totally innocent. So it's hard to know what's going on in your situation. But if he starts acting weird and secretive and makes a lot of excuses then you might have to think about what's going on when you're not around.
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Well Mamasan, trust is the foundation of a loving, healthy relationship.  If you are constantly worried about if he is being unfaithful and trying to catch him I would say you should really reevaluate this relationship.  

You may or may never get any real evidence, however, I wouldn't recommend staying with someone you have doubts about, i.e. questioning his motives and activities/moves.  Don't stay trying to find the evidence of him cheating.  

He could be very innocent and if you are questioning every move he makes he could get tired and end things.  Perhaps he needs plenty
of freedom and space to do what he wants independently of you.

What exactly do you mean when you say he has good excuses for being away?  What excuses is he giving you?  

Does he have a history of being unfaithful?  Do you have a history of being cheated on?

You are correct...... he may not get caught if he is cheating and there are numerous ways he could be covering the evidence, however, do you want to waste your time in a relationship distrusting him and trying to catch him?

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If you smell perfume or any black mascara marks on his shirt.
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Yes, but he is soo damn cunning, i have no access to his phone or email, and he always has good excuses for being away.
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Are you worried about your bf cheating?
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