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Dried crusty residue on Penis shaft
I had dated a an a few times last night we got into heavy petting that was heading to sex, when I touched his penis i felt an alarming amount of crusty dried residue along his shaft > Instant red flag< the only thing i felt could do this was if another woman had *** on his penis and he didnt clean it off! I asked him if he had sex recently with someone, he said no....i didnt trust having sex with him as much as i wanted to :/ it concerned me that he did have sex and was lying about it :/ and putting me at risk! there was no way I was going to let him inside me after that. Guys? is he lying? is this what happens with the penis when its not washed off after sex? women need to be informed and need to protect themselves from sexually transmitted diseases due to lying partners; could there be another cause to so much crusty residue along the penis shaft not just around the head? I would appreciate some advice on this asap please.
my trust to continue with this person now has been severed because i believe he lied to me.
my trust to continue with this person now has been severed because i believe he lied to me.
Either way, whether it was his own residue or from a different woman, it's still totally gross and means he is really lacking in the hygiene department. That for me would be a major deal breaker, not even considering the cheating angle. I think you dodged a bullet cause no one in their right mind would want to get intimate with a guy who doesn't know how to take a shower.
Hi thnx for your comment, no i wont be seeing him again because what i found on his penis wasnt normal skin issues and the fact it looked the way it did was enough for me to question his integrity, it clearly was dried juices from either sexual intercourse or masterbation ( if this was the case he was too embarrassed to admit it to me) and he chose not to wash it off :/
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Why is your trust severed over a suspicion as you have NO proof he is lying?
This could be related to OTHER things besides him not washing after being with another woman. Perhaps his hygiene isn't the best.......perhaps he has a skin condition. Who knows. I think you are jumping to conclusions too quick.
Is he lying? Well, no one here can say he is or isn't. If you can't trust what he told you then most definitely don't have sex with him and don't pursue the relationship.
"women need to be informed and need to protect themselves from sexually transmitted diseases due to lying partners".................. I will say that women need to allow more time to get to know a man before getting intimate with him and definitely use protection when she is NOT in a committed relationship/exclusive relationship. If you are only in the early stages of dating and decide to have sex without protection with a guy then you could be asking for trouble, i.e. contracting an STD.
You've only dated him a couple of times and if you aren't feeling comfortable with him then don't stick around.