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bestfriends?

i have a best friend shes awesome ! (: well anyways thinqs between me and her have change alot since i got a boyfriend. we dont hang out as much as we use to.
lately shes been sad...
the other day me,her,and my boyfriend were hanqinq out ,w were talkinq about stuff, and out of nowhere she qot up and left. she went and hanq out w/ my worse enemy -_-
idk wut to doo,,,
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Nothing else really to add; agree with Specialmom.  
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I think what I would do is tell her that you really care about her and want her to be happy!  Make that clear.  Then be sensitive to her.  That means, in front of her . . . don't go on and on about how awesome it is to have a boyfriend, etc.  When she is along with you and your boyfriend, go out of your way to make her feel included.  When it is the three of you, that is not the time to be super affectionate with him or have intimate snuggle moments or private love moments.  Talk to her as much as him, have him chat with her, treat her like a friend to both of you and to you as a couple.  

She may be jealous and this is pretty common.  Reassure her that she'll meet someone at some point too.  

but be sensitive to her if the friendship is worth it.  good luck
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I guess you have to decide who is going to be there for you in the long run, the boyfriend or your best friend, and make space for that one alone with you.  Nobody likes being a third wheel.
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