Husband signed up for a dating site

[megochick101]

So my husband just received an alert on his phone that his new account at some dating site has been set up. HE is currently sleeping so I haven't said anything about it. But since I am a curious person, I checked the site out. It's not just a normal dating site such as match or e harmony, no it a SEX dating site. It a site that you can go to to find people in your area to have SEX with!!!!! I almost woke him up and started bitching at him, but I don't want him knowing that I know he has an account at this site. I did note the website name and his login info, as it was conveniently in the alert on his phone, and put that information in the notepad of my phone for future reference. But i'm not sure what i should do, should I just confront him about it, or do I wait and see if he uses the site? But then if he actually uses the site, I don't know how I'll handle that.

But on the same hand, if i confront him about this, he may just go to a different site and hide it better. So it may be better that I know. D*mn it i'm freakin PISSED!!

So confront him, or wait it out?? Any opinions out there?

[cmm20]

Before u blow it out of proportion... cell phones r just like tht now. I get Facebook nd dating alerts nd I dnt use either. A lot of ads go around saying u have a wink or another available update its usually viruses for cell phones.

[Nighthawk61]

Oops, this is a really old post

[Nighthawk61]

I'm wondering about the contact that he made earlier with two other women?
Also, please think about taking the initiative to get a good therapist to help support you until your marriage get's on a stronger footing.. You're in my prayers.

[cshillings]

my husband had been acting lil diff and so I went threw his phone net hystory and found where he registered for a xxx dating site. He swears it wasn't him but it was his phone his town his phone number his age and email. And still swears he didn't do it. So I went into the site on my phone (his reason it was registered was his info is programed in his fone)(mine is too) but I still had to put it all in there manually inorder for it to sign me up. Noone else has had his fone. We've been together about 11 yrs. What do I do and how do I find what the truth is? And how do I stop obsessing on this. I'm not sure if it hurts more cuz I feel lied to or cuz he has an account

[hurtingwife63]

So sorry to hear about your situation.  I understand completely how you feel.  I have been married for 31 years and have 7 wonderful children and 7 equally wonderful grandchildren.  My husband for a very long time has been very secretive about everything.  Bank accounts, credit cards, emails, his phone etc.  I am not allowed to touch a piece of his mail.  After 31 years of marriage!  My gut feeling finally talked me into taking a closer look.  About 6 months ago I discovered porn on his phone and lots of porn on our computer.  My 12 year old daughter told me she has actually seen her Dad looking at porn many times in the middle of the night when she gets up for a drink or something.  I was sickened to hear that!  I also found out he was enrolled in the dating website AshleyMadison, soliciting extra marital affairs.  Nothing could have been more devastating. He said it was all just a joke.  He is a serial liar.  Just recently I found a text on his phone from his "psychic" friend.  Apparently they are now having an affair.  I am done!!!!! Filing for divorce right now!   He has ruined my life.

[specialmom]

Well, livi, this wouldn't make me happy.  I'd ask him to stop doing that and to make his computer/phone available to you.  Then be very very watchful.  I hope it was just a prank on his part but still inappropriate.  good luck