I'm sorry for what happened but if you confront him are you ready to deal with the possible outcome? Are you ready to accept the fact that he's looking for sex from other people? What happens if it back fires and he wants to seperate? I understand my questions doesn't help but you have to prepare yourself for anything before you confront him... When my bestfriend's caught her ex cheating he told her well you were looking for something and you found it, why are you mad? and ended it with her. Just make sure your prepared for anything...
Good luck keep us posted.
Not yet, tonight hopefully, I ended up falling asleep last night at like 7 watching tv and he put the kids to bed for once. then i woke up at like 3 and actually went to bed. So hopefully both of us will stay awake tonight to talk!
Hey mego, just wondering if you had that chat yet with your hubby. Hope all is well.
I'm leaning towards spam, and definitely going to have a talk with him tonight about our relationship.
Specialmom we both have that problem when we talk of saying you and i alot and i know we need to work on that so i'll try it tonight to see if "we" can fix "our" relationship. there, already starting, just gotta stay in that mindset because we are both bad with the you accusations. And i'll try and shut up and just remain calm and wait for his answer as i do always tend to try and steer the conversation.
If i do happen to find him on the site, i'm not going to contact him at all ro try and be really sneaky and set up anything with him, because just seeing that he's on a dating site is enough for me, i don't need to catch him actually meeting up with anyone, and i don't want to let it go until he does try and meet someone. But as i couldn't find him i'm thinking it's just a random spam, probably from a porn site he goes to or something.
But i'll have a chat with him about what we both need to do to make our relationship the best it can be.
well i looked through 53 pages of guys within 10 miles of where i am, they don't have a search by user name function which seems stupid to me but it was sorted by distance from my zipcode and i didn't see him in there. Which either means he hasn't logged in yet to verify the profile or it was just a spam email.