I have been in a committed honest lesbian relation ship for about 2 years now. My partner is beautiful, intelligent, and everything I could want or hope for. I have really excelled in my career since we have been together, and feel that this has put a strain on our sex life. I just do not know how to get the ball rolling again. I was working long hours and completely exhausted by the time I would return home. We worked opposite schedules for a while, so some days we would not see each other @ all. We have been living together for about 1 year. I guess we have both noticed a dramatic difference in our sex life since then. Last summer we decided to move in with her family so we could save and move out of state...well no shocker we weren't getting down with her folks around! Summer's over we move out into a nice little humble place of our own, We get down for a couple weeks and I got a promotion and all the extra long hours and exhaustion begins. My have gotten a grip on the hours, and understand that I could have lagged in sexual desire do to work related stress. However things are the same. I rarely feel like initiating sex, or even making it a priority. My partner is very emotional and self connected, she always knows exactly how she is feeling and my lack of desire, has begun to effect her self confidence. She thinks I am no longer attracted to her, or I must not be as in love with her as I once was. I am not a very open person, and @ most times I would rather walk away. This is not something I can walk away from, I have always been a very sexual person and I am having a really difficult time trying understand what has happened to me. Or if things are all on me...she seems to think so.
I am 28 years old...I am a young gun..why the lack of desire?