help !!!

[tedbaker]

heyyyy, guys i made this account today because i just found out that my boy friend put as i his  fb status some nex level paragraph on how ex is in his mind fake smile and feelings and all this stuff anjd another girl sed how cud u go owt with them bithces and he sed dont murk of **** cause you no i still hav feeling for her and sed and dont murk of ****8 lol :S . weve got alot of history together but wen i chukies him he gor wivv some gyal and they lost theyre virginity togevva and stuff they went out 4 like 11 months and through it all he jsut sed am a nice gyall n stuff but he loves **** ive always loved him and then they broke up. 2 ish months later we got talkin again and he told me he still as feelinggs for me and  we got together , i really think he loves his ex still even tho he promised he doesnt he just said he cares abouyt herr helpp me please !!!! x

[tedbaker]

anoooo yea but its alll alll over the place like hell say he loves me and he cares and that am his world balh blah blah but i dunno :/ i really do love him and i wanna let go but its not appenin :/

[specialmom]

Hi.  Welcome to the forum.  Ya know, it is true that we always may have some feelings for an ex that we are no longer with but once cared for.  That doesn't mean that we want to still be with them, right?  I don't know if he does or he does not--------- but he is saying that he doesn't.  He put it public on facebook (which I am not a fan of facebook) knowing that you'd see it so he isn't hiding anything.  But I guess if you have doubts, cheshchesh is exactly right.  Go with your gut.

I also think cheshchesh makes an excellent point.  At 16, this is not what you need to be thinking about.  This is suppose to be fun!! good luck

[cheshchesh819]

What is your gut feeling i always goes with that,at 16 you should not be in such a messy situation,if he has feelings for another girl then his heart isnt truly with you,he sounds like he dont know what he wants to me and that he is maybe holding onto too you just incase this ex dont want him,do you really deserve and want to be second place,if not move on find someone who will put you first.