I hope this doesn't come across as selfish, 2 years ago I met my now fiancee and mother to my 6 month old son. When we met we had a fantastic sex life and she explained her bipolar condition and how the medication reduces her sex drive to zero sometimes. During her pregnancy the doctors told us that she would likely to suffer from post natal depression - she didn't, but as a result we missed the early signs of her slipping into deep depression.
After the birth of our son, our sex life resumed. I'm now doing more and more every week coping with a 6 month old and my fiancee who just "isn't there" any more.
It's destroying me, I don't know what to do or say, everytime we talk about it she says its the medication - AND, the worst this is that I know. As I said, I don't want this to be selfish - but, I ask her for a cuddle / hug but there is nothing there.
I know I've got to keep going... But what do other people do?