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10043212 tn?1410903340

Need advice. . off topic

So today I went through my boyfriends ipod, going through the photos there were still pictures and videos of his most recent ex. I deleted everything considering maybe he forgot about the pics, he definitely doesn't need them anymore. . So I said something to him and he got a little irritated for me going through his stuff. And said he knew the pics and videos were on there. We been together for a year. What and how would u react? Am I wrong for being mad about it?
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9812003 tn?1452545539
So what he had pictures and videos of his ex. When he is ready to let go of all of his past he will. But deleting them without his prior knowledge makes you seem childish, jealous and insecure. He is with you right now and you are entitled to your feelings. But I think the discussion should be had about why he still has them and you should have let him decide whether or not he was ready to get rid of his memories.
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I would reacted and done the same thing.
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Your not wrong at all I would had reacted same way
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10043212 tn?1410903340
Exactly. I'm more hurt than anything considering it's about time to have our son. Now i just feel he wants her still.
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9961264 tn?1410873329
I did the same thing on my bfs phone.. he doesnt need them. Especially since they were engaged. I never said anything though.
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I would have done the same thing. After a year he has no need to keep them. My bf had old photos too on his phone and her number so I deleted it all. I'd see how they (boyfriends) could be mad if we deleted them after not dating them long but a year later...yeah no need for the old pics and stuff
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