Getting an organsm with my spouse

[Starchild80]

Hello,

I need some help in bringing spouse and I back together I haven't had an organsm in a year and it very fustrating, I miss the explosion, the sparks that my husband and I used to make any ideas

[Starchild80]

Thanks all have good suggestion, and anwser to your question, Just trying to add 20 more years to my marriage and cut out all the Bull Sh*t, I love my husband and I realize I made some mistakes along the way and I believe one of them was because I wasn't being please in that area if  anyone have more advice I am open for suggestion. However, we did talk about it and we did go to the store and bought something that require batteries thank you, its a start.

[santita]

Is it normal for a man to ask for a blow job?

[MrsOckert]

Wow I didn't know they would bleep out d o t  c o m.

[MrsOckert]

When did you and your husband have sparks?  Was this before or during your four year affair?

If you are truly serious I would work on my relationship as whole instead of concentrating on being frustrated that I haven't had an orgasm.  Or are you looking for a reason to have another affair?  Sorry, but this is an honest question.

There are several books you can get that will help you grow your relationship with your husband and there are even books on how to grow sexually as a couple.  I would suggest going to Amazon ******* or a nearby bookstore to get started.

[mslkpage]

I agree with mami. And get something that requires batteries too. Nothing like a Rabbitt or Magic Bullet to spice up the bedroom! Yowza!

[mami1323]

First thing would be open communication.  Tell him what you want, show him how to please you.  He's not a mind reader, lead him.  Spice things up.  Read a book on new positions, try some games or role playing, talk about your fantasies, get dressed up sexy for him.  You can be amazed on how much you will learn about someone just by being open.  Even someone who you have been with for a long time.  Experiment is the best.