Relationship break

[why28]

no cheating, physical or anything of the sorts..

Girlfriend out of the blue decides a 4 day break would do us some good as we havent been able to see much of each other lately(which will change in a week,) so we just been texting really instead. she said she needs a break from it will us good,

what do you make of that.. is it likely to be over so theres more than im being told?

[babypooh]

It does sound suspicious, but it you need to ask for an explanation.  Did you two go through some tough times other than not enough time together?  Is it possible she lost interest due to lack of alone time between the two of you?  Either way, you need to talk to her.  She's the only one that knows the answers and I hope it works out for you.  Break ups are tough.  Everything happens for a reason though.  Whether it's her or not, there's someone out there for you.  Good luck.

[RockRose]

A four day break?  I can't imagine any other reason than she's found some guy she wants to "try out" for the next four days.

Why are you texting her all the time?  If you can text,  you can call on the phone and actually talk to her.  

[mami1323]

Something else is going on there that she's not sharing with you.  You should tell her that you need more of an explanation then that.  If you are in a serious, committed relationship, she should at least give you an understanding of why she is pulling away.  It's not fair to tell you via text message that she needs a break and not divulge any reasoning behind it.  What does that say about the relationship?  Tell her you don't mind giving her the space she needs but she needs to tell you why all of sudden she is feeling this way.  

[why28]

it was perfect from both sides however due to deadlines I havent been round to much for a month but there over next week. then she just said pretty much sick of the texting, its just become forced, even when were out in public its not great cuz we dont have enough alone time whereas i didnt think any of the above.. then by text was given the "break" messge.. still claims its not a break up, just will do us good

thanks

[KATE535]

It could be any number of reasons - it would help you explain what your relationship is like in more detail first. Has something happened that would make her want this break? Anything, like a loss of interest in this relationship, due to not having much time together lately, that may be the cause. Perhaps she feels it's not completely working out? You need to make more time for her if you want to keep her interested....??