she is nuts...get out while you can!!!
Nothing will ever be enough for her, it wasn't before the cheating, and will never be now...
the child care /share can be worked out by lawyers.
sorry to soiund cold, but this could go on like this forever.
I would move on!
I agree with Teko. This is a lot more than anger over infidelity. I think that your wife has some mental health issues and is not addressing them. That happens at times as some people will not admit that they have an issue and cause such pain and misery in their partner. Your home sounds full of pain. This is not healthy for anyone. When you say you created it, well--------- that is wrong. You contributed to it and your wife did as well equally. Flat out, she is half to blame. At some point it is okay to say I did everyhing I could and this isn't working out. I wish you the best.
Maybe its time to move on. Sometimes it is the only thing we can do, for the happiness of all involved.
Nothing was right, nothing seems will get right...ever.
I have created this hell...i guess i will have to live it till the end...
Forgiveness can only be begged.....but it should not be taken as ones weakness...
I do not know how long i can hold on to my sanity....
hope u have a grt day....enjoying with wife, in-laws, daughter... god bless..
Hosting my In-Laws at home for few days.
Seems that all will be right for sometime....
Hopefully....
With regards to the mother issue. Hopefully you will never have to choose . . . but if you do, choose your wife because your mother will then bend. Mother's tend to bend more if they think they have to. But the best thing is to keep the peace and tell them both that you expect this. You should be able to love both women and I'm sure it is much more complex than what we will understand here.
For building romance, are you still apart with your station? I'd write her lovely letters and try to stay as connected as possible. When you are together, spend time together without your daughter as often as possible. Remember when you were dating, think in terms of that. That romancing her needs to start all over again. Romance does not always mean sex . . . some women love good conversation, doing something they love to do with their mate, getting a neck rub. Start doing those things as if you are just now getting together. Start greeting her every time she or you walk in the door and say good bye with a hug and kiss every time she or you walk out of the door. Bring her flowers. All that stuff. But most of all, start doing things together that you both enjoy and try to reconnect.
Good luck