I agree woth Judy, he has done his running around and you have not had your chance to live some, but you are right in the education dept, it is most important, and remember men can have children even in thei 70, do not buy his biological ticking, that is his way of trying to control you i dont think age makes a difference in some people but in others when you are 21, you just need a little more time, try to explain this to him he has had his share of sowing wild oats, but when he is 50 you are 35 i would think this over and not be swayed from a decision that you feel is right for you luck jo
That's intereting to hear that a man's biological clock is ticking, since a man can have a baby up to his 60+...interesting. Although you are beautiful, smart and mature for your age, you are not at his level of maturity and I mean absolutely no disrespect when I say, he is at the age of settling down and you are not, so the age gap has caught up with both of you. I agree 100% with you that your priority is to finish school, find your career, then re-evaluate if exclusive commitment is right for you. He is at that point right now. Communication and trust are key to a relationship and you have to tell him that you are not ready for that type of commitment at this point, but after you finish school, have a career, you would like to reconsider the relationship at a higher level of commitment. He will either understand or within time leave the relationship and pursue what he wants at this point. The only difference in age is a life experiences and maturity and although you are mature for your age, he is at a different level of maturity in his age, resulting in conflict. Don't do anyting you don't want to do or are ready for just to keep him or keep him happy. He will either respect you at this point in time of your life or re-evaluate the realtionship. Good luck, Judy