beeing understood

[natalcia]

I think my partner dont understand how happy I am to have our first baby and that im just so exited of thinking about stuff maybe way forward....:'( makes my cry and so sad I cant even explain

[specialmom]

Well, A. stay off her facebook page.  This is why I am not a facebook person.  It causes too many problems.

And B. perhaps it is time to begin taking more pics of the two of you.  You don't look at theirs but make your own life with him and record it via picture as that is a fun way to build a history together that you can look back on.

Hang in there.  

[natalcia]

He dont have then she has but the reason I saw them is I was looking at his poctures on facebook before we meat and she put a comment on one thats how I saw them even thought I saw them before when we started beeing together but now and when ever I want a pocture with him he always seems so arggh about it or says im tired and stuff makes me feel like I dont look good enouth to be on a pic with him :'(

[specialmom]

Can you ask for him to remove the photo?  And then get a good one taken of the two of you and put that in its place?

[natalcia]

Even though its been years and shes with someone else now over 3 years gone or4 even but she has them and iys so painfull to me when I tell him tomorrow I want to gwt somee pictures done togwther with the bump for first time hes all arghhh about it makes me sad and heart brokes and just thinking about that he donsent like to have any pictures with me :-(

[DirtyBlonde95]

I am truly sorry you're going through this I completely understand!  If I saw a picture of my husband and his exs I would be so hurt. Sometimes men don't get excited about the pregnancy like women do but fall in love with the baby as soon as they are born.

[natalcia]

Thank you !!
But its like I saw his exes photos she still has them two kissing photos and everything and even though its been years and years ago it makes me feel like he dont want any to be done with us together and the bump thats what makes me sad the most !!!

[specialmom]

Hi there. Well, sometimes having a baby is less early on to a man than a woman.  They aren't experiencing the body changes we are.  We connect sooner I think because of that.  Give him time and he'll be more in tune with it. But it is a 'good' thing to be very happy and hormones sure make us emotional.  Sorry you are feeling alone and not understood---  just do your best to express it to him.  peace and congrats