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Everyone I've talked to told me to wait on moving out with my boyfriend.  I don't knoe though its getting harder and harder everyday. They told me to wait because what if the outcome wasn't pleasant.  I'm lost on what to do my boyfriend keeps asking when I'm moving in with him what do I do ?
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I totally agree with mommyinfebruary, I was living with my boyfriend(soon to be husband) and I didn't regret leaving with him. However, i've been staying with my parents since I was 4mmths, I'm 35wks now ftm, and it's hard not to have your partner by your side. He never got to go with me to an appointment, see an ultrasound, or hear her heartbeat since he works out of town. If you feel that y'all are ready to live together then you go for it. To me it didn't matter what anyone said because at the end of the day it's our life and our decisions. Do what you think is best for you and the baby:)
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I have lived with my bf 3 years now but I say do it if you feel the relationship is strong and serious. I will tell you the relationship does change once living together, good and bad. I was so happy to be out of my per ants tho.  Everyone told me to wait or not do it at all but I did it when I felt ready and I wouldn't change that decision.
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I'm about to be 3 months but I have back pain and I don't have a room to myself :/
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When i told my bf I was pregnant, we waited until I was 4 months along to find a place together. I was determined to get out of my parents house, and its such a relief to beable to wakeup next to him, have someone there to help me.
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