I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, but it has been a difficult 7 years, it got to the point 2 years ago that I bought a new mobile home so that i would have a home, well now my son who is 18 lives here too. My boyfriend says that I spend all my money here and i don't help him anymore and that i should sell this place and make my son rent something. He told me that I have nothing to offer him, because until i get this paid for we can't save any money together. I can't abandoned my son, and he doesn't like my son. Always makes smart remarks toward him, and when my son did live at his house with us, he was mean to him, took the lock off his bedroom door, unplugged the phone outlet so he couldnt use the internet, ...When i lived there full time i helped with everything, but it has always been that i have to to ask before buying or doing anything different there to the house, such as decorating or hanging something on the wall, he makes me hang stuff only where his ex-wife had stuff hung, i cant put anything where i want it.. Now, that I don't live there full time, i just really feel like its not my home, i do help him out some, but not alot. he told me that i do nothing for him, and that he needs someone to help him and live there full time. what am i suppose to do about my son? please tell me what to do? i think it's time to move on, but it's so hard, but i do got a lot of angry feelings toward him.