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i dont know were to start ok so i go to school from 7:40-5:45 and i hate comeing home i fill so traped in there my mom and dad dont let me go any were and if they do i been beging for like 30 minuts or an hour the only time i ever fill ok being here is wen i aint alone like with my boyfriend or my best friend.... so every time i get the apportunity to leave this house i take it !!! like wen i dont have night school and they dont know i dont come home till they think im out of school that little momnet wen im out of school is wen i fill my liberty/ freedome or wen im out with my boyfriend or bestfriend. and wen they dont let me thats pretty much all the time i lose it i fill confined to this house then i fill like to start brakeing stuff and it takes alot of streng to stop my self then i start geting really bad thoughts like of me being gone.... i would leave with out permition but i just cant i was brought up to always ask them for permition to pretty much do watever!!! im going crazy i cant stand it !!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont know what to do... i know this is a little long but thank you verey much for reading
In my opinion, you still sound rebellious even if you aren't Niki159. I would be "cringing" if my daughter had a friend like her; sounds like bad news. Her posts are very concerning.
Your words...."like wen i dont have night school and they dont know i dont come home till they think im out of school that little momnet wen im out of school is wen i fill my liberty/ freedome or wen im out with my boyfriend or bestfriend." Lying to your parents and them not being aware of your actual whereabouts sounds like rebellion.
Your words...." and wen they dont let me thats pretty much all the time i lose it i fill confined to this house then i fill like to start brakeing stuff and it takes alot of streng to stop my self then i start geting really bad thoughts like of me being gone.... i would leave with out permition but i just cant i was brought up to always ask them for permition to pretty much do watever!!!" Your feel like breaking things because your parents aren't letting you do what you want? Sounds like rebellion once again. It is not unusual for children to ask permission to do "this or that." That is 100% normal. What is not normal is that you want to destroy things when you aren't getting your way.
Speaking as a mother, give you parents more respect and quit rebelling. You live under their roof and have to abide by their rules and that is just the way it goes. It's not the end of the world.
Your words...."like wen i dont have night school and they dont know i dont come home till they think im out of school that little momnet wen im out of school is wen i fill my liberty/ freedome or wen im out with my boyfriend or bestfriend." Lying to your parents and them not being aware of your actual whereabouts sounds like rebellion.
Your words...." and wen they dont let me thats pretty much all the time i lose it i fill confined to this house then i fill like to start brakeing stuff and it takes alot of streng to stop my self then i start geting really bad thoughts like of me being gone.... i would leave with out permition but i just cant i was brought up to always ask them for permition to pretty much do watever!!!" Your feel like breaking things because your parents aren't letting you do what you want? Sounds like rebellion once again. It is not unusual for children to ask permission to do "this or that." That is 100% normal. What is not normal is that you want to destroy things when you aren't getting your way.
Speaking as a mother, give you parents more respect and quit rebelling. You live under their roof and have to abide by their rules and that is just the way it goes. It's not the end of the world.
COMMUNITY LEADER
I should point out as well that my advice goes whether you are really niki or not.
I'm sorry if I sounded insulting about Your spelling. I meant to point out that You need to concern YourSelf more with school. Like the others I thought You were spending WAY too much time having sex.
If You want suggestions, advice, opinion etc., You should have Your own account and I encourage You to do so. (I still think You shoud try to bring Your "D" grade up. It's very important for Your future to earn passing grades.
If You want suggestions, advice, opinion etc., You should have Your own account and I encourage You to do so. (I still think You shoud try to bring Your "D" grade up. It's very important for Your future to earn passing grades.
Im sorry I havent seen your post till now and I should of mentioned this isent my account my friend said I can use it for this so I did and no my D is not in spelling is in chem and if my spelling is of im sorry my phone messes it up and english was my second lenguage so I strugle..
I feel compelled to respond to this post but do not want to come off as offensive. I'm not even sure as to where to begin.
Freedom: You complain of having no freedom, but another poster said you've bragged about having sex 24 times in one month. Where is the lack of freedom there.... Personally, I think your parents are on to you and are trying to keep you from becoming impregnated. I think you are on a rebellion, and I'd bet that there isn't a whole bunch of good that will come from it. Your parents are doing what they are doing because they love you and are trying to protect you.
Pregnancy: I haven't read your other posts, but it seems as if you are eager to get pregnant. What do you plan to accomplish by getting pregnant? Again, rebellion. I'd guess that you feel as if you'd be a better parent than your folks... 'I'll get pregnant and I'll show them". Again, I am not trying to offend you, but that is the poorest of poor attitudes.
Being selfish: You sound extremely jealous of your younger siblings. You clearly compare the attention they get to the attention you get. You're parents sound like they are trying to urge you to start making responsible decisions, but you want them to hold your hand still. If you're old enough to have sex, you need to start acting like the adult you want to be. By the way, getting pregnant at this point in your life will complicate the hell out of it, not make it better. The amount of dysfunction you are exhibiting will be forced upon a child, just by your actions. When the baby is 3 or 4, you'll be either mad that you can't be out "clubbing it up with friends" or be neglecting your child by being out "clubbing it up with friends".
Being an adult is a *****, even for a lot of adults. People who are educated, employed, and what looks to be a bright future lying in front of them fail as parents, unfortunately. They try to be their child's friends, and that sounds like that's what you want from your parents.
You need to take some time (you claim to be confined to the house so much, so there is plenty of opportunity) and take a good look at your life. You need to take a good look at what your parents provide, not only for you but for your siblings. You need to take a good look at how hard they work to make this happen.
I hope you have the ability to do that. I don't think you do. You do not have it anywhere near as bad as you think you do, and you're rebelling against it??? Wow.... I hope you have a wonderful future. Stay in school, further your education and find a career.
Freedom: You complain of having no freedom, but another poster said you've bragged about having sex 24 times in one month. Where is the lack of freedom there.... Personally, I think your parents are on to you and are trying to keep you from becoming impregnated. I think you are on a rebellion, and I'd bet that there isn't a whole bunch of good that will come from it. Your parents are doing what they are doing because they love you and are trying to protect you.
Pregnancy: I haven't read your other posts, but it seems as if you are eager to get pregnant. What do you plan to accomplish by getting pregnant? Again, rebellion. I'd guess that you feel as if you'd be a better parent than your folks... 'I'll get pregnant and I'll show them". Again, I am not trying to offend you, but that is the poorest of poor attitudes.
Being selfish: You sound extremely jealous of your younger siblings. You clearly compare the attention they get to the attention you get. You're parents sound like they are trying to urge you to start making responsible decisions, but you want them to hold your hand still. If you're old enough to have sex, you need to start acting like the adult you want to be. By the way, getting pregnant at this point in your life will complicate the hell out of it, not make it better. The amount of dysfunction you are exhibiting will be forced upon a child, just by your actions. When the baby is 3 or 4, you'll be either mad that you can't be out "clubbing it up with friends" or be neglecting your child by being out "clubbing it up with friends".
Being an adult is a *****, even for a lot of adults. People who are educated, employed, and what looks to be a bright future lying in front of them fail as parents, unfortunately. They try to be their child's friends, and that sounds like that's what you want from your parents.
You need to take some time (you claim to be confined to the house so much, so there is plenty of opportunity) and take a good look at your life. You need to take a good look at what your parents provide, not only for you but for your siblings. You need to take a good look at how hard they work to make this happen.
I hope you have the ability to do that. I don't think you do. You do not have it anywhere near as bad as you think you do, and you're rebelling against it??? Wow.... I hope you have a wonderful future. Stay in school, further your education and find a career.
After reading your other posts, which by the way are very concerning, I can THOROUGHLY understand why your parents are trying to be a bit more strict with you. In one post you even stated having sex 24 times in a month and then here you state you don't get any freedom? Dear, I am not sure EXACTLY what your "idea" of freedom is. And then you are concerned that you might not be able to get pregnant?
You sound EXTREMELY rebellious and ungrateful to your parents for sure. If they were allowing you to do WHATEVER you want then they wouldn't be parents in my opinion. Sounds like you are "fed up" with following rules and people telling you what to do and when to do it. I would say you need an "attitude adjustment."
My advice: You better get a "grip" on this now and quit rebelling so much against your parents. Keep in mind you are STILL a child.
BTW: agree with all the above posters
You sound EXTREMELY rebellious and ungrateful to your parents for sure. If they were allowing you to do WHATEVER you want then they wouldn't be parents in my opinion. Sounds like you are "fed up" with following rules and people telling you what to do and when to do it. I would say you need an "attitude adjustment."
My advice: You better get a "grip" on this now and quit rebelling so much against your parents. Keep in mind you are STILL a child.
BTW: agree with all the above posters
I so agree with RockRose: If You're having sex You are getting more freedom than You need.
I also agree with SpecialMom: You need to give more attention to Your school work and studies. Is the D for spelling?
I also agree with SpecialMom: You need to give more attention to Your school work and studies. Is the D for spelling?
Reading through your profile, you are having sex nearly every day for a year with a boyfriend and you're not trying not to get pregnant. You're actually sort of curious why you aren't pregnant yet.
This doesn't match with what you are saying in this post, that you don't have any freedom. A high school girl who has sex nearly every day for a year has way too much freedom and freetime, IMHO, with no parents watching.
This doesn't match with what you are saying in this post, that you don't have any freedom. A high school girl who has sex nearly every day for a year has way too much freedom and freetime, IMHO, with no parents watching.
i wish i can worke but sadly i cant and ya im a year away from graducationg and anything i do is never good enough i get fed up being compaired with my 7 year old sisster im never good enough in their eyes and if i saying anything its a bother to them i just cant stand it but wen my brother asks its sure go ahead and his younger and my grades are good their A's AND B's maybe an D but then i worke on it
COMMUNITY LEADER
Such is life when you are not able to support yourself or be financially independent. You go to school in order to get yourself to the point of being able to have your own place and your freedom. So stay focused on your school work and getting ahead. Perhaps a part time job would be a benefit as well for you to save money.
Your parents provide a roof over your head, food, school, etc. and hence, they get to make the rules for now.
But if you stay on track and prepare yourself for a career that will sustain you financially, you'll be able to be on your own eventually. Until then, try to think of all that they DO for you and be grateful. Attitude is everything and can really change how we look at a situation. good luck
Your parents provide a roof over your head, food, school, etc. and hence, they get to make the rules for now.
But if you stay on track and prepare yourself for a career that will sustain you financially, you'll be able to be on your own eventually. Until then, try to think of all that they DO for you and be grateful. Attitude is everything and can really change how we look at a situation. good luck
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