porn f*cker

[ryleesierra]

Not pregnancy related.

I don't have an outlet to talk to anyone.. so I will use this app. I don't want to bottle it up.

I know boys will be boys... & watch porn. Obviously.
Isn't there a point when they turn into a man? Well at least a man to me, would have more respect twords his family then to watch nasty porn all the time.

It's becoming an issue. Almost once a week I find excessive amounts of porn websites on his phone.
I have totally confronted him about it.
& voiced to him how uncomfortable it makes me, not to mention that it makes me SICK to my stomach. Also that I find out highly disrespectful.
How hard is it to not watch porn?

I'm currently 19 weeks pregnant with both of our first child.

Am I the only one dealing with this smut?
Am I over reacting?
Thanks in advance, I apologize for the length.

[specialmom]

I have a problem with the way porn degrades women.  Not to mention the drug abuse so rampant in that industry that it is hard to find these 'actors' very sexy.  It's a very sad business to be in.  But that is just my opinion.  Some men do seem to like it.

but it is a matter of degrees.  Like, that is crazy to have to watch it daily or more.  I think someone has WAY too much free time on their hands if they are doing that.  Work longer hours, get a hobby, spend time with your girlfriend.  What exactly is someone avoiding who is doing that?  I feel the same way about video games, gambling, shopping, even tv.  Avoidance of real life allows them to get sucked into an addiction to these items.  

So, that is the question.  If someone knows they are doing it too much based on feedback from the partner they love, will they stop or cut back?  If not, it's a problem that is much bigger than watching some porn.  good luck

[iJoyzilla]

It has always irritated me a bit when I catch my boyfriend out. I think for me it's more due to insecurities because I know I don't put out enough to combat his high libido. He's respectful of me not wanting sex frequently, so I have never told him I'm uncomfortable with porn. Nonetheless it still bothers me.

[LadyBeeley]

A lot of women see what their man watches and automatically get pissed off bc they feel inadequate to the forms of the women on screen. Really a guy just wants to see sex happening. They hardly ever pay attention to the exact woman and we as women tend to waaay over think stuff. What it boils down to is porn helps them whack it quicker and if they want to pop off a quick one who are we to stop them? Thats very selfish in my opinion. Its no different than reading a steamy romance novel. So in my opinion, if youre willing to never look at a hot guy on a magazine cover, read a romance book or watch a romance movie, or even talk about sex or can give up the cosmo magazine then yes its fair of him to give up porn. Men actually think they are learning from porn lol and if we watch it together it actually improves our sex lives. But in our relationship I probably watch it more often.

[sembkc2006]

My fiance watched porn and it doesn't bother me a bit. Like the other girls said I would rather him watch it than cheat on me. I watch it with him too.

[kay1027]

I honestly don't know why it makes most wemon mad. My husband watches porn and I don't care. I mean its not all the time so he isn't addicted to it. Sometimes I watch it with him so its not uncomfortable for us. I mean it isn't cheating so let it be.

[RayJackson]

I found it really awkward the first time I found porn on my fiances phone, but when it comes down to  it I would rather he watch porn than cheat, or go to strip clubs and etc. its no big deal, boys will be boys! I even watch porn with my  fiance sometimes. it's harmless

[Marissa2009]

Lol girl ur not and my hubby gets super defensive about it as well and he tells me it's bc he's embarrassed about me knowing about it but he says it means nothing he watches it just to watch. Don't worry girl he Luvs u & don't want to go nowhere else if he's denying it lmao.. men will be men what do Yado!!!!

[mom_520]

I try but some time he takes to long lol

[ryleesierra]

@Marissa2009 I was thinking the same thing, that I would rather him watch porn then go out and have sex with someone. I did talk to him but he got really offensive and tried to say it was from a long time ago. I didn't confront him about it this time.  It's honestly nice to know I'm not the only one that has this happen.


@mom_520 Even when I'm not in the mood. I always take care of his urges! I know he couldn't pull that card, haha

[Marissa2009]

Yea same sex just feels so weird and uncomfortable I'm 35 weeks as of today so I kinda figure hes doing it still.

[mom_520]

I would b upset to but I really wouldn't no Wat to say cuz I'm not giving it up that much any more

[Marissa2009]

I use to feel the exact same way. It pissed meoff and hurt my feelings so very much. But I got over it bc I know he Luvs me and wants to only be with me. He's 27. I'm just glad he doesn't do it in front of me.  And I think it helps I don't go look for it anymore. He tells me he jus watches it to watch it. I rather him do that then go cheat with one of those fake girls* good luck momma have u talked to him? And if I was u I woyldnt try to take it so personal all men do it. Well a ton