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pregnancy hormones.. or valid? please help

I'm 23+2 and yesterday I was doing my fiancée's ex a favor and was dropping their 3year old daughter off at the babysitters (her sister-in-laws) me and his ex have never got along she is rude bossy and treats my man like shyt the worst kind of baby mamma u can expect.. well the baby sitter has a 70 lb pitbull well her daughter opens the door and I can barely get the 3yo out of my hands and the dog is running through the house towards me growling and barking so I do the best I can to block my stomach the dog jumps on me knocks me into a corner and was in my face ready to attack... the woman didn't even leave her living room to grab the dog or yell at it and after I finally got away she couldn't even apologise to me she didn't say a word! So I was furious!! My fiancée said he would chew her out and stand up for me but when he had the chance.. he didn't say a word to her and that made me even more furious!! Am I wrong? I mean he should have stood up for me and our unborn baby that dog could have killed her and tore my face off shouldn't he have said something I think honestly the woman did it on purpose and baby mamma just laughed about the whole thing..
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I agree with Londres and Brice.  

I would be disappointed if my fiance didn't let someone know that a situation was unacceptable but I also wouldn't allow an outside force that might enjoy doing so cause problems in my relationship.

Tell him you are done with those people.  goodluck
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Totally agree with Brice1967.  

In the future, let your fiancé deal with these people in regards to HIS child.  I would just stay out of the whole situation.  Maybe if the dog attacks him he might see things a "bit" differently and say something.  
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Do you think that being a bit@@ to this person is going to solve anything?  It's 5 days after the fact, and it sounds like this person doesn't care at all.... so by going and being a bit@@ to her, you are potentially putting yourself and your baby at risk.

I wouldn't bother, nor would I ever give this person the time of day.  She doesn't deserve your time.  You should have called the authorities when the event happened.  Reacting now will probably do very little, but to each his/her own.
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Thank you ladies I don't feel crazy anymore :-) well I get to see the ex today and u better believe she is getting an ear full from me... I'm tired of playing nice she's about to see the b in me!
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Omg that's horrible I can't belive the owner didn't grab thier dog!!! And the ex laughing what trash!! No you are not over reacting at all
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I would have called animal control ur life was in danger n the dog wasnt properly restrain from hurting anyone. Do you have any scratches or bruses. I love dogs but i have been bitten by them and that is no joke. N i agree^ ur fiance was a jerk for not standing up for you and the baby.
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2193601 tn?1392460637
No youre not wrong I would of went off on all of them then turned around & called animal control or something 4 putting both of yalls lives in danger & your man is a puss 4 not sayin anything
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2195822 tn?1341056911
The dog knocked you into a corner? sorry if the dog is aggresive you should call someone to get it put down/taken away. so dangerous to have kids around dogs like that.. I wouldn't have a dog around a baby, let alone anyone elses babies, especially pitbulls.. Dogs in my experience are unpredictable and jealous of babies and kids. If a dog hasn't ever bit someone in their lives it doesn't mean anything, they can snap when Jealous. Ps your boyfriend/fiancee is a jerk for not standing up for you. Does he have feelings for his ex do you think? not trying to upset you but could be a reason he didn't defend you.  and no you're not wrong. I'd go apeshit if someones dog attacked me , esp if no one did anything about it! x
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