reg virginity

[imcool72]

Hello sir, Am unmarried 25 yrs female. I'm really dont have much idea about sex. Once i heard from my friends that hole of virginia should be small. If not the person is not considered to be as virgin. from my childhood i used to put a finger over there to check for my mensuration. So now it has become little big. two fingers can go in. Will my partner think in the same way because my hole is larger? if i go for virginity test will it give as not a virgin. am really scared. please help me out

[Gotmoxy]

If you can't see a doctor about a possible torn hymen, get yourself an anatomy book with full graphics. That's really all I can suggest. Maybe you will be able to compare with a mirror down there?? I'm sure you haven't torn it. I would just stop putting your fingers around that area. You are still a virgin. Trust me, a penis is much bigger than two fingers.

[imcool72]

Thanks a lot for your reply. I'm not sure about this hymen torn. As i used to this from the age of 13, i'm not aware about it. please help

[Gotmoxy]

No not at all! Your body has developed and matured. It's only natural that your vagina is going to be a little larger. It needs to be in order for reproduction to happen. Have you ever felt pain when inserting your fingers? Has it ever caused you to bleed? If not, I wouldn't consider your hymen to be torn. You can explain your concerns to your doctor and have him check. At your age, you should already be going for regular check ups of your vaginal area. But, I don't know what the medical practises are in Mumbai.