i love the way you guys think i wish i was strong enough i guess theirs times he shows me so much love that i forget about the times he's been mean.
Your boyfriend is abusive and his family is well nuts. If I were you I would really consider my options. Your pregnate so that complicates things but you need to do what's best for you and your baby. What happens when the baby come and you need the food stamps to buy food for the baby? Or you need your last $5 to get the baby diapers? Is he still going to expect you to put him before your new born baby? Him making a fuss about you not knowing how to cook. Cooking is trial and error that's how you learn. He's gonna have to deal with a few bad meals before you get the hang of it. This man must not love you if he is putting you through so much.
Your boyfriend is abusive. His family is full of dysfunction, and in return he is passing all of that dysfunction on to you. He has damaged your self worth and self esteem. This guy seems to be around only for the hand outs and isnt willing to lend a hand.
I dont want to sound like a jerk, but why would you want to stick around with someone like this? Wouldn't it be far nicer to find a man who is more concerned about you and your child than himself? Relationships are all about giving, and you've given until your blue in the face. You've given this guy your last $5 and he complains? That takes a special kind of balls and they hang under the word ABUSIVE!
Being a good girlfriend has nothing to do with being a good cook. Anyone can learn to cook. If this guys complaint is not having good food, does he buy good food and cook? (If you want something done right you have to do it yourself... did you ever hear that saying? Let him apply that to his life and see where he gets.) It really sounds like this guy is a spoiled brat and a momma's boy on top of that. I too am a mommas boy, but I can take care of myself.
You need to love yourself in order to find a good love. Distancing yourself from this guy is a step in the right direction. Why would you subject your child to this behavior? Do you think it will get better with this guy? What would make you think that? He already disrespects you at every turn.... it is right time for you to start doing for yourself. Do what you need to get away. His parents don't like you? Good, speak with a lawyer.... there are a few in every community that make them selves available to ladies in your situation. Call the authorities if you feel there is potential for violence, and start to rely on your family for support. You can do this and you do deserve better.... you've been a hard worker you've said. Now is the time to get to work on this.
thank u, and yes the support of my family i'll b needing it and i know they'll b there4 me n my baby. im just so confused the baby is almost here. i want to give my baby a good life a better one than mine and mine hasnt gone well because of my mistakes not my mothers. i just wish i was strong enough to do it on my own , because i feel worthless with my boyfriend he doesnt understand i just dont know how to cook but im a great person whenver he needs me. it seems hard for me to leave him and later see him happy with someone else. he's told me i ruin everything maybe i do but i guess cuz i cant keep my mouth shut whenever i feel i have to say something i say it. he says i dont deserve a home from him because i do nothing for him, n hes family sees that. all i can say is hes family might know how to cook but their not even close to perfect. Ive always been a hard worker maybe not right now cuz im always tired
i know that has come to mind but theirs times he is soo sweet to me and he accepted me with what i have, but theirs times he makes me feel very down.
i love him to death and its hard to leave him, maybe itsb also my fault that im not a WOMEN that knows how to cook n etc
Well, it sounds like a bad relationship, and you're not going to be able to fix it that he is so mean and negative. What will you do if you finally understand he will never be nicer and never be better to you? In your shoes, I would begin to determine how to get out of it. Why waste love on someone who is mean and unloving? He sounds very cruel. I would consider moving away.