I don't think this is cause for concern - I am sure MANY men have fantasized about having a threesome, but I'm sure the number that actually have had one, is far smaller. . Having a threesome is definitely not for everyone - I would not be remotely interested in having one myself, so I doubt your boyfriend will hold a grudge if you fall into that category, besides which, not all fantasies are meant to be realized. If he loves you and wants to marry you then you really shouldn't be worrying about it.
As long as you continue to have a satisfying sex life, your boyfriend will not have regrets - he'll be grateful to have a good sex life, because so many people don't!
Relax. Chill.
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You need to find somebody that will share your same sexual views.
My fiance has a checkered sexual past and I have mine, although he's more experienced than I am. I know he was bothered by one of my past flings but I never got upset about his past. I was actually quite curious about it. He has never gone into how many people he's slept with or anything like that, I just know a few stories. I don't really care what was done prior to me. There is so much more to worry about in a relationship than how many people you were with before you were together. Cross that bridge when you come to it. Meaning, if you end it with him now because you doubt his seriousness, than do it, if you decide to stay with him than let that thought go.
I think I have more sexual experiences than he. He was raised suburban, clean cut, just a nice guy. I was a wild child in my days. I experimented more than he and the end result is....it doesn't matter. As long as we love and respect each other, have a great intimacy, the past is just that ...the past.
When a man talks about a threesome he is definatly not the marriage type if he thinks of it he will eventually cheat if it were me i would not marry him untill he is a little more mature he has not had time to sow all of his wild oats and beleive he will in time luck jo
Thank you for your answer. I am not saying that I would go for a 3some or that he would either. I agree - i would not want to share him and he would not want to share me either. We just openly discuss our fantasies and my question is - whether or not guys who are married/ committed now - feel like they did not experiment enough sexually before settiling down. Idk if you are married or have a serious boyfriend and how old you are - but do you think your boyfriend/husband experimented enough sexually prior to being with you?
sorry, I meant, I would leave him on the spot!
Hi, first when couples begin to bring up their sexual past, it's just asking for unecessary trouble, jelousy and insecurities, so it should be left where it belongs....in the past.
Inviting a 3 some is a fantasy, but when it happens, it will change the dynamics of the relationship and put everyone at risk for STD's. Most young men like this idea, but the majority of men do not. We are talking here about moral values and putting the relationship at risk. I believe in sharing, but not my man! He's curious and temptation can lead to future infidelity and bringing home an STD. Also, how can you trust a man who is risky, daring and want to take a chance with a valued relationship? This is just my opinion, if my fiance would become adventures and bring up a threesome, I would leave him right on the spot. I'm not risking my relationship, future infidelity, insecurities and jelousy's, not trusting him anymore and the risk of an STD. I want to be his fantasy and able to fullfill his fantasy, if he is willing to risk our relationship by bringing another...that's just not for me. I would live him over it......but, that's just my opinion. Good Luck