stupid homewreckers!!!

[babyC_1]

So my husband came home tonight from hanging out with that girl he's been talking to and told me that she chewed his *** out for me posting on his Facebook wall, and also told him that he needed to choose between me or her. And he is deciding which one he wants. If he wants to stay with me and be unhappy or go with her and be happy till she breaks up with him.  I honestly have no words for this. She also gets mad when he's texting me. So when he's with me he doesn't text her and when he's with her he doesn't text me.  And the way he is acting he's gonna choose her. Which is perfectly fine. She can have him.  I'm tired of fighting and putting up a fight for him to stay when I know he wants to leave. Me and my son will do fine on our own.

[makeartnotwarr69]

Oh and give the baby YOUR last name.

[yesenia5]

I'm sorry this is something u shouldn't put up with sounds like u tried Alot!  I'm fed up just reading this don't let him choose make the choice for him it's hard I know but he has no excuse a real man would step up and try to fix it. he's unhappy wth does he think u feel!? Inconsiderate men I wish u the best that girl doesn't even realize he's gonna treat her the exact same way. you and baby will b just fine let him just be another check cuz frm the sound s of it he can't even be a real man much less a father

[makeartnotwarr69]

Yesssss I agree luxah.  You won't win doing anything to them or saying anything to them. No matter what, they're gonna feel like they won so anything you say will roll off their shoulders and damaging someone's belongings could get you in trouble. Just leave, get custody of your baby and move on..

[luxah]

I would just leave, don't tell him don't do anything to his possesions, because that can backfire on you, be the bigger adult and just go. I agree to file for divorce and full custody at the same time. I also agree with giving baby your last name, he doesn't deserve to be honored by the baby having his, but of course that is your choice. I would also not even waste my time giving her a piece of mtly mind. She obviously doesn't care or see the problem she has caused, and neither does he. And for you to have to wait for him to decide, no thats ridiculous. This isn't a game show where he gets to pick door number one or door number two. I'm very sorry, but this could be better in the long one. If its not her it could be someone else. Good luck.

[babyC_1]

Thanks guys.  I'm gonna go stay with my grandparents till I get me an apartment or a house. Everything that's at our house is in his name. So he can just stay there. I honestly have nothing left to say to him.  He has hurt me enough.  Enough is enough.  I'm done. I can make it on my own with my baby boy.

[alanatb]

You are a strong woman your baby will be fine without him. Even if he choses you hes surely going to keep cheating on you im sure you don't want that and dont want your son thinking thats the right way to treat women.  Please I beg of you just get rid of him.. I know its hard but in time you will find a new man that will love you and your boy unconditionally for who use are.. Goodluck I wish you all the best in the future :)