Ah, I'm sorry about this. Have you tried being really direct with him. Telling him that you'd like to spend more time with him and be closer?
lol my baby father hates that song ,but thats what ima start doing.
I know the feeling. My husband, he was dumb enough to leave the pics he sent girl on his phone. He was upset that I was pissed and told him I would leave. I didn't expect him of cheating but hey since he got caught he does whatever I say. Sometimes when he doesn't comply I just sing loyal by Chris brown.