want to..... but scared to....

[aly79]

so my ds will be 1 month old on the 20th so that puts me roughly at 4 weeks i am interested in having sex but scared to i have other children but never was interested till like my kids were 4 months old this one is different the interest is very much there but they tell you to wait till your 6 week apt i didn't have any tearing or anything like that so do you think i could go ahead before my drs apt or should i wait

[Judy246]

This is a question for your gyne. If your beautiful baby boy is only 1 month, you need to give your body time to heal, but contact your gyne, to make sure it will not result in excessive bleeding or pain, especially if you have stiches. Good luck and your baby boy is just toooo precious congratulations!  Judy

[aly79]

k thank you

[mami1323]

I know...lol.

[specialmom]

I know, with like the exact same advice too!!

[mami1323]

specialmom and me are hitting the keys to post at the same time...lol.  

[mami1323]

I had sex at 4 weeks but I had to see the doctor first to make sure that everything was healed.  I would wait until your appointment.  They say to wait for a reason.

[specialmom]

This probably isn't the right forum,  but conventional wisdom is to wait until you get a doctor okay.