my boyfriend is a porn addict and cant admit it and wont

[plhc27]

i have been with a wonderful man for 2 yrs.but he is into online porn and wont admit to it we have had sex twice in 2 yrs.i take care of myself .he cant get hard.hes been watching porn since the age of 10.when i ask if we will ever have sex he says soon or blows me off.i dont know what to do i love him so much but i dont get the attention i need as a women im very sexual active and i dont want to lose him on the weekends i leave and he acts like he done nothing wrong in the beginning of our relationship he would watch porn fron the time he gets up until its time to go to work and gives himself a hand job watching cam porn help me please im not sure how much more i can take

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Well, the bottom line is . ..  whether he is a porn addict or not, you are not sexually compatible.  At all.

I, in all honesty, would decide how important a sex life is to you.  And if it is, I'd consider that this isn't a good match.

I've loved men that I have broken up with when I realized that we weren't compatible in some way.  Love isn't enough for happiness.  goodluck

[Life360_Dave]

His a wonderful man in your eyes but those that read this would most likly thing otherwise. i have heard that porn can be and addiction just as powerful as drugs and if thats the case he needs intervention and from what i read its not going to come from you. Maybe start with confiding with your family doctor. If porn is in his mind that intensely God only knows whats next.

[TTinKKerBBell]

.......and why do You call Him "a Wonderful Man"?

You say You Love Him "so much" - what is it that You Love?  I'm truely not being facitious - I just wonder, sincerely:  What is it that You are in Love with??!!  You say You don't know how much more You can take - well, You're not supposed to "take" anything - This is NOT the way to BEGIN a relationship!!  You really need to take a LONG, HARD, LOOK at at this!! and answer if this is who You REALLY want to spend the rest of Your life with and make Children with.  Walking into, or beginning a relationship that ALREADY has problems can ONLY equal MORE problems!!  This much I know is true.

[RockRose]

Lordy.  Your last sentence is help you please you don't know how much more you can take.

I wouldn't have taken even  one week of this - what's keeping you from moving on?