Try posting in the dermotology community, we can't give you any more info here.
So today I went to see a dermatologist (in my country's leading govt hospital) and tried explaining him symptoms the best but he wasnt convinced. I told him about the intial breakout of intense itching and eroding leading to soreness. I also told him about the present eraser like rub-off on inner forskin/head on rubbing finger on it, breaking pubic hair on rubbing. Showed him prickle causing light dark areas on base area of head which come and vanish in few days. Showed him two black spots on scrotum and told him about prickle which happens anywhere on scrotum. To no avail. About the past abscesses, he told me to come when another happens. He dismissed it all as not abnormal and that it happens with age and not to everyone. Me not being satisfied and anxious he gave me atarax for 4weeks. I may be proving myself paranoid here but here I am being asked to stay with some kind of skin infection rest of my life.
now who here has even one of these being normal?
you absolutely can not continue to self treat and guess as to what is going on as you've been doing. there are no excuses at this point for not following up on this properly at this point! A dermatologist is your best bet since this has been going on for so long now.
grace
Well, you will have to figure out what "this" is first. And go from there. There is no point in guessing if you want to treat it properly.
Thanks for the advice.
Tomorrow is sunday so will have to wait.
I was thinking before going to a doctor if there is any off the shelf ointment/cream I can try and see how things respond? Also what clues can I look for to acertain if it is bacterial or fungal?
And to relieve my anxiety, using medication will I be able to get rid of this completely?
You don't have a risk for std's from your dog licking you. You probably got a bacterial infection that has now gotten way out of hand after 9 years. A dog licks many unpleasant things and could have simply caused a reaction. It is about time you see a doctor. There is nothing to tell you online because you need to be physically evaluated, tested, and then diagnosed.