One last worry

[harerama]

Hello Doctors

I had already asked my question and got an answer from Dr Hook but I still have one last worry which I needed to clear out before I move on definitely.  To summarise my situation:  I was a virgin until this year and had sex many times this year with CSWs.  All of them were protected and involved protected oral, protected vaginal and unprotected cunnillingus.  Iv been tested for HIV, SYphillis, Gonorrhoea, chlamydia 12 days past my last exposure involving the above mentioned acts.  NO test was done for herpes since I have had no symptoms and doctor Hook also said no test needed.

My worry is from the second protected sexual encounter with a white CSW aged 20 years old from Romania.  This was over 1 month ago. I performed unprotected cunillingus on her and we had protected sex.  The problem is that when I switched on the lights I saw some lone bumps near her vagina.  They were pink and when I touched them they were hard.  The girl said that she got them due to shaving but I could not see hair in them.  It did not look like lesions or warts to me. (am no expert)  She had them near her labia, on both thighs and in the inguinal region.  We had sex three times that night for like 8 minutes each time.  Condom slipped a bit but penis head was always covered.  We cuddled while naked and there MAY be some brief genital touch wen moving around naked on bed.

I am worried because I am getting married in less than two weeks now.  I have checked my genitals really closely everyday since that day and saw nothing suspicious at all.  In light of all this, should I be concerned or seek further testing or as Dr Hook said, can I settle down with my to be wife without any fears?  

This is my last question.  I know that I may be asking something utterly inapropriate but I am worried.  This is my sole worry left.  I just want to know if I can stop checking my genitals now and move on to get married without any fears to be a danger for my wife.

[harerama]

Thank you

God bless you both.  You will both always hold a special place in my life.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Noted -- see above.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

I reviewed your discussion with Dr. Hook and agree with his opinions and advice.  The additional information provided here does not change anything, regardless of the possibility of "some lone bumps near her vagina".  You had risk free exposures and do not need testing for any STDs.  You should entirely stop examining your genital area; you don't need to examine closely to be aware of any and all STDs that would cause any symptoms.

Your comments below suggest you already understand that anxiety driven repetative questions are not welcome on the forum.  So there won't be any further discussion on this thread.  Do your best to move on without worry.  And I'll also have to ask that you adhere to the 2 questions in 6 months rule.  Any new question on this forum before next November will be deleted without reply and without refund of the posting fee.

Really, just accept the repeated, science based reassurance you had and move on with your life.  Best wishes for a romantic and altogether rewarding marriage.

HHH, MD

[harerama]

this is my question answered by dr hook:

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Some-protected-sex-anxiety/show/1943721#post_9094646

[harerama]

I apologize sincerely for all.  I read the medhelp policy and this is really a last question.  I am worried for my marriage.  I never had any herpes symptoms and all my sex was protected.  I never tested for herpes since there has been no symptoms and since the sex I had were protected.  The doctor as well as doctor Hook told me to move on.  This is my last worry.  I will never return here or never betray my wife.  Please help.