Help, Hypochondriac... Extreme Anxiety/Depression

[R8dioactive]

Hey guys, so I would consider myself to be an extreme hypochondriac, and I was hoping I could get some advice.
So about 9 days ago, I had an encounter with a random guy. We gave each other blowjobs, there was no finishing, unprotected.

Now, I have had no bumps, or any red marking on my penis, or pelvic area, same goes for my mouth.

I did develop somewhat of a sore throat 3 days afterward, but I think that might have to do with the extreme pollen levels here, as I have seasonal allergies. As well as a side effect of my anxiety.

Just today, I noticed a bump on the back area of my neck, I think it is where a lymph node is supposed to be. So now I am stressing and freaking out about what could have caused this.

If anyone can offer some advice as to what I should do, I would appreciate it.

I know I can't get accurate tests for a while, but I would appreciate anything at this point. I have been on the verge of tears several times because of the stress and anxiety I am putting myself through, I should probably be seeing someone, but I have not been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder.

Thanks guys

[alexsp87]

Oral sex is low risk and the lack of symtoms in/on your genitals is a very good indicator you got nothing. Oral STD's like gonorrhea shows no sypmtoms +90% of the times. Testing is not recommended in cases like yours. I would tell you to calm down, most probably you have nothing. If you need more reassurance, get tested as soon as you can for gonorrhea, 6 weeks after exposure for syphilis and 3 months for herpes. In the unlikely escenario you have anything you will be treated and cured so try to relax.

[R8dioactive]

Thank you for the reply, you have no idea how much a little bit of reassurance helps me. I will most definitely get tested when the time comes, for the piece of mind.

I appreciate the advice.