My girlfriend is pregnant, how is this possible?

[Charrison3014]

First of all, my girlfriend and I are both 16. My girlfriend had a misscarriage on 4/16/08. After this we vowed we would not have intercourse again. During the month of July we fooled around a little bit. I fingered her and she gave me a HJ here and there but I was extremely cautious. I know that I did not touch my penis and get pre *** or anything on my hands and then finger her and I know that she did not get anything on her fingers and touch herself. So here we are now, she missd her July period (she is really petite and misses periods here and there though). She has taken two preg. tests and both are positive. She is 100% fathful so I know that is out of the question. She is having backaches and her stomach is messed up.

We are going to go to the doctor. My 100% intention is to be here and to be here for the baby. It's just all really confusing as to how this happened. What could've possibly happened? please help me, could this have anything to do with the miscarriage and her HCg levels still there or coming back? Please help me get things straighened out a little bit.

If you play wih fire you get burned. Too little too late though I have every intention of redeeming myself and her god name and making this situatin a positive although I know the reversal of something like this will take a long long time. I want to be a firefighter and my girlfriend wants to be a doctor, this is really a set back but I will not abort, and I have to own up to my mistakes. The hardest part about all this is disappointing my family and friends. I know deep down nside of me I can handle this. My brother went through the same thing actually and he is very successful. I didn't want the same thing to happen to me but I made a mistake and hopefully in thefuture this mistake will turn into a blessing.

[nursegirl6572]

There was a wealth of knowledge given to Chris in this thread...and everyone was VERY VERY compassionate.  I'm sure something like that would be hard to hear...but he really needs the truth...this is the rest of his life and the life of a baby we're talking about.

Hopefully he wasn't frightened away....hopefully he comes back and at leaat posts an update.  

I pray that everything works out...he sounds like a wonderful young man...I just dont want someone to take advantage of his kindness.

[Liberty7]

OMG I actually think you guys scared chris away he didn't wan't to hear the truth and you guy's gave it to him and harshly too you made his gf sound like a giant *** poor guy and you don't even know them i mean neither do i and yea she mite be but he didn't need to be told that so harshly i mean for real think about it wouldn't that suck to hear?

[jesslee83]

i was wondering what had happened with it all...he posted there using the above name, did he maybe forget his pw and make a new acct?

i really feel for this guy, hopefully he comes back....

[msgorgeous]

i saw another post buy him in the pregnacy 21-34 forum where he said that she had gone to the doctors but he was unable to go. he also used a differant name too lol i have no idea why but i knew it was him

[Hyena5]

has she gone to the dr yet????? I feel really sorry for you. I hate to think that way but looks like she cheated.........if she is pg that is....

[kjbutcher]

I stopped reading everything about 20 posts ago so I dont know if anyone mentioned this.  If you ejaculated anywhere near her where the two fluids could meet she could have gotten pregnant.  Think long and hard about any mis steps you guys could have taken.  I hope you have planned a u/s because that will give you most of your answers.  If it is a new pregnancy and not parts of an old one, or the miscarriage never happened, this baby needs a dna test.  If you got the u/s when she would have been about 4 weeks pregnant or so, nothing may have shown up anyway.  I bled for 10 weeks when I was pregnant so that period of her may not have been a period.  On the maternal forum, someone posted today that a friend of hers just gave birth and never knew she was pregnant because she bled the whole 9 months.  I really hope for you that either it is a false positive or that it is from the original pregnancy, because as others have said, it doesnt sound like it is yours otherwise.  Good Luck and please let us all know what happens.